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Ep 145: Interview with Sex & Kink Writer and Podcaster Kate Sloan.  I welcome Kate to my podcast show! Kate is a self-proclaimed sex nerd, and she really has had an amazing career! She's a journalist, author, award-winning sex blogger, podcaster, and a sex educator who has been writing about sex, BDSM, Dom/sub, kink, LGTBQ, and queer topics online and in print for over ten years. Her first book, an introduction to kink and BDSM called 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do,  came out in October 2021; her second book, 200 Words to Help You Talk About Sexuality & Gender, is planned to be released in May 2022. She has reviewed over 300 sex toys on her blog at GirlyJuice.net. She also co-hosts the podcasts 'The Dildorks' and 'Question Box.' In the interview, Kate and I chatted about sexuality, kink,  gender, relationships ... she even shares about her own personal kinks and relationship.  She shared her insights about Daddy Dom and little girl, the spanking kink, service kink, her top blog posts (including the best lipstick for blow jobs), sex toys, and the importance of masturbation and self-exploration to learn one's own body and sexual hot spots and triggers. We also discussed how to get started writing about sex. To learn more about Kate, visit her website: http://www.katewritesaboutsex.com/ https://girlyjuice.net/ Kate's books (affiliate): 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do https://amzn.to/3MB3k0g 200 Words to Help You Talk About Sexuality & Gender https://amzn.to/3LoMP7j About the podcast host Ruan: Ruan writes erotica about women loving women, bisexual women, heterosexual couples, and multiple partner encounters. She also writes nonfiction about sex on her blog at https://ruanwillowauthor.com/ https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Want to read her work? Support her? Review her work? Here are the details: Her novella The Kitchen Sex Challenge is out as an audiobook. Want it for FREE? You can get it for free here: https://storyoriginapp.com/audiobookreviewcopies/dd67594e-cc03-4130-a821-6fcd66d9193d This book is the first in the novella series about a heterosexual couple who love to edge each other and do sex play and challenges together. Read Ruan's MILF novella! A MILF age gap erotic weekend getaway story: Ruan's Cabin Getaway (affiliate): https://amzn.to/3LkWZpu Link to access the book worldwide: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1d745b60-73c9-11ec-b8a2-73116e75cbb3 My DEBUT LGTBQ NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor & student... their taboo relationship and many explicit BDSM lesbian sex scenes: universal affiliate link  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1fd60b54-7493-11ec-b5c6-4712c13ec515 Hello! Welcome! Listen to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find rom Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

29 Apr 20221h 18min

Ep 144: A Day of Sexual Play The Grocery Store Sex Challenge Erotic Novella Excerpt by Ruan Willow. Announcing book 2 in my sex challenge series! It's a romantic comedy short. In this rom-com erotic novella book two of the sex challenge series, where two consenting adults enjoy some secretive sexual play in public, the Day of Play continues for Brad and Anna, the second marriage newlyweds. Brad had all the advantages last round when the play happened in the kitchen, so Anna must dream up her best plan if she is to win this challenge. Even though she gets caught with a vegetable shoved in her cleavage in the produce section, she's not deterred, she intends to win. Shedding her inhibitions, and sometimes reveling in them, she slowly seduces Brad to cave in to her sexual charms. But he's not laying down dead, he throws a few kinks in her toolbox during the playful shopping trip. When the grocery list is almost complete, they both relish the delicious rise and fall. They leave the store more than satisfied with the outcome, optimistic for the rest of their day of play. Stay tuned for the next erotic rom-com novella in this series where Anna and Brad challenge each other once more; their day of fun is nowhere near over. Find this book on Amazon (affiliate): https://amzn.to/3LkVBTO Universal link: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/ff8ae6fa-ba63-11ec-ad4c-531d9ca079d8 About Ruan: All my links are accessible at https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow My novella The Kitchen Sex Challenge is out as an audiobook. Want it for FREE?  https://storyoriginapp.com/audiobookreviewcopies/dd67594e-cc03-4130-a821-6fcd66d9193d This book is the first in the novella series about a heterosexual couple who love to edge each other and do sex games/challenges together. MILF age gap erotic weekend getaway story: Ruan's Cabin Getaway (affiliate): https://amzn.to/3LkWZpu Link to access the book worldwide: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1d745b60-73c9-11ec-b8a2-73116e75cbb3 My DEBUT LESBIAN NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains their taboo relationship and many explicit BDSM lesbian sex scenes: universal affiliate link to book  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1fd60b54-7493-11ec-b5c6-4712c13ec515 Listen to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy for adults only,  and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

26 Apr 202215min

Ep 143: Learn about Erotic Hypnosis and Kink from the team at Mesmerotic. This is epic! Totally epic!!! Listen in as I interview the partner team of the Hypo Hedonista/Trix and Sinister about erotic hypnosis and kink. You can find them online at Mesmerotic! In this amazing interview with these amazing spectacular lovely talented people, you will learn what erotic hypnosis is, what hypnotic hedonism is, and how you too could explode your sexual experiences, both solo and with a partner(s) with the use of the enhancing tool that is erotic hypnosis. You can learn skills from them in their workshops, classes, and online content. You can experience them via YouTube videos, audios on their Patreon, only fans content, and even by booking appointments with them. They also do virtual appointments so you can learn and work directly from them personally. Hypnosis is poorly understood and you should know you are still in control, so no, you will not be turned into a mindless zombie when you are hypnotized! Check Mesmerotic out at the links below to see all that they have to offer. They want to help others learn the skills to enhance their sexual experiences through the use of hypnosis. Imagine you too could experience your biggest fantasies, your dark fantasies, and just about anything you want to by using your mind and the versatile mind-widening tool that is erotic hypnosis. I learned so much in this interview, I know you will too! Enjoy! Connect with Mesmerotic at: https://mesmerotic.net/ Trix/Hypo Hedonista https://linktr.ee/hypnohedonista Sinister https://linktr.ee/sinisterdenial Mind Play book mentioned during interview (affiliate): https://amzn.to/3rIBGGA Thank you Trix and Sinister for coming on my show and sharing your experience and knowledge with the world! Hello, I'm Ruan! Listen to this episode to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy for adults only,  and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life. Have a fabulously sexy day! love ya, Ruan Come visit me https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow My new novella series book 2 The Grocery Store Sex Challenge is in presale, the erotic rom-com novella. A novella series about a middle-aged heterosexual couple who love to edge each other and do sex games/challenges together.  (affiliate)  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/ff8ae6fa-ba63-11ec-ad4c-531d9ca079d8 My DEBUT LESBIAN NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains their taboo relationship and many explicit BDSM lesbian sex scenes: universal affiliate link to book  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1fd60b54-7493-11ec-b5c6-4712c13ec515 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

23 Apr 20221h 31min

Ep 142: Female Masturbation Excerpt and Author Interview with Selena Powers aka Maggie Preston. Enjoy this excerpt I narrate from Selena Powers! It's a sexy female masturbation piece that you will definitely enjoy! It's hot, fun, saucy, and oh the surprise! Then stick around the for the interview where we talk about writing, the writing process, what we've learned about writing erotica/romance and publishing. We chat and had such a fun time talking as writers, as authors, so much fun! To connect with Selena/Maggie: Her website with access to books: www.authorselenapowers.com Twitter: http://twitter.com/WriterSelenaP Insta:http://instagram.com/ authors_maggie_and_selena TikTok: @authorsmaggieandselena  Excerpt Ruan read is from Mastered by Degrees: Initiation, a part of the Six Degrees of Seduction collection. BDSM Books on Amazon (affiliate): Mastered by Degrees: Initiation https://amzn.to/3rI8fEM Mastered by Degrees: Lessons https://amzn.to/3OwnyKw Erotic Bedtime Stories: A Faerie Tale Anthology https://amzn.to/3K9YsO1 Thank you for coming on my show Selena! Hello, I'm Ruan! Listen to this reading to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy for adults only,  and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life. Have a fabulously sexy day! love ya, Ruan Come visit me https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow My new novella series book 2 The Grocery Store Sex Challenge is in presale, the erotic rom-com novella. A novella series about a middle-aged heterosexual couple who love to edge each other and do sex games/challenges together.  (affiliate)  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/ff8ae6fa-ba63-11ec-ad4c-531d9ca079d8 My DEBUT LESBIAN NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains their taboo relationship and many explicit BDSM lesbian sex scenes: universal affiliate link to book  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1fd60b54-7493-11ec-b5c6-4712c13ec515 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

22 Apr 20221h 8min

Ep 141: Men's Sexual Health Chat with Dr. Tracy Gapin of Gapin Institute/Gainswave, also discuss Long term Sustainable Regenerative ED Therapy. This therapy is all-natural and non-invasive, and non-systemic. This is an amazingly helpful talk! You gotta listen! He shared so much information to help men/people with penises have better sex, and of course, their partners too! Whoop Whoop! Let's go! Dr. Tracy Gapin is a surgeon, world-renowned health and performance expert and the founder of the Gapin Institute for High-Performance Health.  He's also a thought leader, a professional speaker, and the author of the best-selling books Male 2.0 (affiliate: https://amzn.to/3Mer6iq ) and Codes of Longevity (affiliate: https://amzn.to/3vuetJj ).  His passion and purpose is providing executives and entrepreneurs a personalized path to better energy, better brain power, better body, and even better sex.    He's the creator of the N1 High-Performance Health Program that provides the data-driven approaches you need to optimize your brain and body for peak performance. We talk about health as it applies to men's sexual health as well as overall health, dietary tips for better sexual/overall health, and how the shock therapy works for those suffering with ED to regain long-lasting help for the sexual dysfunction.  We talked about how medicine in the US is reactive rather than proactive, and how he and those at his Gapin Institute focus on the proactive solutions, while providing help for existing ED.  I asked him a few questions from my follower friends. He also shared what potential help is on the horizon and the potential help, such as the use of stem cells. FREE GIFTS*****He's sharing freebies! Text the word health to 26786 for free books and information. Find out more: web https://gainswave.com/ Twitter: http://twitter.com/gainswave Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/GAINSwave Instagram: http://instagram.com/gainswave Thank you Dr. Gapin for talking with me! Hello, I'm Ruan! Listen to this interview to improve your sexual health, overall health, and life! On my podcast, you will find erotic romance, plus topics on relationships, sexual health,  romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, topics for adults only,  and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts as well.  Good sexual health and fitness are important parts of a healthy life. Have a fabulously sexy day! love ya, Ruan Come visit me https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow My new novella series book 2 The Grocery Store Sex Challenge is in presale, the erotic rom-com novella. A novella series about a middle-aged heterosexual couple who love to edge each other and do sex games/challenges together.  (affiliate)  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/ff8ae6fa-ba63-11ec-ad4c-531d9ca079d8 My DEBUT LESBIAN NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains their taboo relationship and many explicit BDSM lesbia Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

19 Apr 202254min

Ep 140: Babysitter Age Gap Erotic Story by Heather Holmes and Interview (characters 18 and over).  H. C. Holmes, Heather Holmes, is an author who writes in multiple genres. She doesn't confine herself to one area of writing but she has her craft opened up to wherever her story leads her. She's very prolific with many stories on Medium.  We talked about writing, the writing process, editing, publishing, the creative process of writing, and how we enjoy the creative outlet that is writing. We talked about sex and sex toys and how this impacts one's sexuality and enjoyment of sexual pleasure. Multiple orgasms came up! Two women chatting about sex, of course, multiple O's will come up! We had so much fun and plan to do another podcast chat with wine! So stay tuned for our happy hour wine chat! Red wine of course! The excerpt I narrate is from Heather's first babysitter story and you can find all three stories in the series on Medium at: https://hcholmes1.medium.com/list/hcholmes-most-popular-babysitter-in-the-neighbourhood-70b3a09041e8 Heather on Medium: https://medium.com/@hcholmes1 Link to Heather's Favorite story of hers that we mention at the end of the interview with the femme fatale: https://medium.com/the-dark-erotic-times/flawless-execution-5f620bab2bef Heather has two pen names on Amazon,  Heather C Holmes, published mainstream content, and non-erotic novels/novellas. And also G.G. Wylde, where she has published one erotic novella. Heather on Subscribe Star https://t.co/MfZO99640x G.G. Wylde https://www.amazon.com/~/e/B09BMHWYRX Heather C. Holmes https://www.amazon.com/~/e/B07Y2JWRTW Facebook https://www.facebook.com/heathercholmesauthor Twitter https://twitter.com/HCHolmesWrites Thank you for coming as a guest on my podcast Heather! It was a blast! Hello, I'm Ruan! Listen to this reading to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy for adults only,  and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life. Have a fabulously sexy day! love ya, Ruan Come visit me https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow My new novella series book 2 The Grocery Store Sex Challenge is in presale, the erotic rom-com novella. A novella series about a middle-aged heterosexual couple who love to edge each other and do sex games/challenges together.  (affiliate)  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/ff8ae6fa-ba63-11ec-ad4c-531d9ca079d8 My DEBUT LESBIAN NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains their taboo relationship and many explicit BDSM lesbian sex scenes: universal Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

15 Apr 20221h 11min

Ep 139: Porn Star Dancing Sexual Bucket List Series Episode 10. Have you ever had a fantasy inspired by a song? This erotic story I spun off the top of my head live as I recorded is inspired by a song. Lots of fun delicious sexual energy and feelings to tap into from songs. This is one that I felt inspired by when I was speed walking uphill on the treadmill, I was jamming out to the song and it struck me that it would make a fantastically sexy Sexual Bucket List Series episode. Enjoy! ***Podcast Episode Sponsor:  Joseph Samaniego The Fate of Kings and Queens (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/3E5K203 Miss the other episodes? Here are the links: Have you missed the other episodes in this series? Here they are: Number 1 (episode number 78) The Dressing Room Rendezvous https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/9299309 Number 2 (episode number 81) Primal Forest Sexual Encounter https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/9354767 Number 3 (episode number 92) Masturbation ASMR Home Alone https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/9502878 Number 4 (episode 95) Sex Toy Holiday shopping https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/9554507 Number 5 (episode 101) Hotel Sex Part 1   https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/9657928/ Number 6 (episode 102) Hotel Sex Part 2 https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/9679781 Number 7 (episode 106) Unwrap Me by the Tree Date https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/9763647-ep-106-unwrap-me-by-the-tree-sex-date-sexual-bucket-lust-list-series-episode-7 Number 8 (episode 126) The Mile High Club Date https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/10169930-ep-126-the-mile-high-club-sex-date-the-sexual-bucket-list-episode-8 Number 9 (episode Ep 132)  The Stranger Hookup Spontaneous Sex https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/10299233-ep-132-the-stranger-hookup-spontaneous-sex-the-sexual-bucket-lust-list-series-episode-9 Come visit me https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow My new novella series book 2 The Grocery Store Sex Challenge is in presale, the erotic rom-com novella. (affiliate)  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/ff8ae6fa-ba63-11ec-ad4c-531d9ca079d8 Hello, I'm Ruan! Listen to this reading to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, t Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

12 Apr 202245min

Rock and Roll Erotic Romance with Author Jackie Mojica. Love rock and roll and the music industry? Love erotic romance? Well then you will love Jackie's books! Have a listen as I read an excerpt from Chapter 5 of Jackie Mojica's book When the Lights Go Out. Then listen as Jackie and I have a fun discussion about writing, being an author, the culture and lifestyle of being an author, the hard work and ups and downs of self-publishing. We chat about other authors' work we enjoy reading. Jackie shares personal details as well such as her love of music and musicians, and her struggles with contracting COVID, being overweight, and living with mental illness. We talk about how to deal with negative reviews and how as authors we need to remember people come with their own hangups and their review may not even be fair or even be a popular opinion, some people are just plain mean! Authors need thick skin! And we need to stay true to ourselves as authors regardless of what kind of reviews we get. To access Jackie Mojica's books: When the Lights Go Out: A Rock Star Romance (The Lights Series Book 1) (affiliate links)  https://amzn.to/3NZeZY8 Heat of the Lights (Book 2 in The Lights Series) https://amzn.to/3rbLHMh The Chest https://amzn.to/3v77eXp Save Me https://amzn.to/3LRyj7M Behind the Dark Moon: A Collection of Poems https://amzn.to/3ulZ7XU Amazon Author page: https://www.amazon.com/Jackie-Mojica/e/B08W36ZMWK/ Facebook http://www.facebook.com/JackieMojicaWriting Instagram http://www.instagram.com/JackieMojicaWriting Twitter http://www.twitter.com/JMojicaWriting Thank you for coming on my podcast Jackie! About the podcast host Ruan: I'm an erotica author, podcaster, erotic narrator for audiobooks  (send me a contract on ACX), blogger, and influencer. All my links are accessible at https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Want to read my work? Support me? Review my work? The details: The Kitchen Sex Challenge is out as an audiobook. Want it for FREE? You can get it for free here: https://storyoriginapp.com/audiobookreviewcopies/dd67594e-cc03-4130-a821-6fcd66d9193d This book is the first in a novella series of a heterosexual couple who loves to edge each other and do sex games/challenges with each other. It's an erotic romantic comedy series, heavier on the romance than the erotica. The Grocery Store Challenge is the next one coming out soon! My DEBUT LESBIAN NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains their taboo relationship and many explicit BDSM lesbian sex scenes: universal affiliate link to book  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1fd60b54-7493-11ec-b5c6-4712c13ec515 Listen to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On m Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

8 Apr 20221h 33min