EP189 – Lead From Your Masculine Core in the Bedroom with GS Youngblood

Welcome to episode 390 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Kirk Honda. In this conversation, we discuss the complex and often misunderstood topic of infidelity. Dr. Honda debunks several pervasive myths, such as 'it takes two to cheat,' 'once a cheater, always a cheater,' and gendered reasons for cheating. We also explore the notion of forgiveness, the multifaceted process of recovery, and the critical role of therapy for both the individual and the couple.Dr. Kirk Honda, PsyD, LMFT, is the esteemed host of The Psychology in Seattle® podcast and YouTube channel. The mission of this platform is to enhance the world by delivering educational and engaging content focused on psychology, psychotherapy, and culture. Established in 2008, the podcast and YouTube channel have expanded significantly, now boasting over 4,000 episodes, 350,000 YouTube subscribers, and thousands of paying members on Patreon and YouTube. Currently, we release approximately 12 episodes per week. Dr. Honda holds a Doctorate in Psychology and a Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy. With a career spanning back to 1996 as a psychotherapist and 1998 as a professor, he brings extensive experience and insight to the show.In this episode, you will hear:●      Common Myths About Cheating●      The Impact of Infidelity on Relationships●      How Patriarchy Historically Blames Women for Men's Infidelity●      Navigating the Aftermath of Cheating●      Factors Contributing to Infidelity●      Understanding that forgiveness is an intentional process●      The Complexities of Forgiveness●      Looking at Infidelity as an Opportunity to Strengthen Relationships●      Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity FirmTechThank you to our sponsor Firm Tech! Firm Tech's TechRing enhances sexual performance and health monitoring with an easy-to-use smart design. It monitors firmness, length of time, and more in the heat of the moment. Additionally, the Firmtech Max PR, their non-tech ring enhances pleasure and endurance. Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code "Sexology" Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

11 Juni 202455min

Welcome to episode 389 of the Sexology Podcast! I'm Dr. Nazanin Moali, and today I'll be delving into the crucial topic of sexless relationships, discussing their prevalence, effects, and solutions.  In this solo episode, I'll explore the significant impacts of a sexless relationship, the contributing factors, and potential solutions. I’ll also share perspectives from our viewers' experiences, explore the concept of asexuality, and emphasize the importance of communication and therapy.  Key highlights include feelings of resentment, lowered self-esteem, emotional and physical disconnection, and an increased risk of affairs and divorce. Additionally, I’ll provide practical advice and resources for seeking therapy and maintaining intimacy.  Be sure to check out my YouTube video; "The Top 10 Effects of a Sexless Relationship on Men" for more insights into this important issue.In this episode, you will hear:·      Defining a Sexless Relationship·      Impact on Self-Esteem and Emotional Health·      Physical Health Consequences of a Sexless Relationship·      How to Overcome Emotional and Physical Disconnection·      What leads to Separation, Divorce, and Affairs·      Analyzing Unhealthy Coping Mechanisms·      Parenting and Family Dynamics FirmTechThank you to our sponsor Firm Tech! Firm Tech's TechRing enhances sexual performance and health monitoring with an easy-to-use smart design. It monitors firmness, length of time, and more in the heat of the moment. Additionally, the Firmtech Max PR, their non-tech ring enhances pleasure and endurance. Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code "Sexology" Book An Appointment With Dr. Moali HEREFollow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

4 Juni 202444min

Welcome to episode 388 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Amy Pearlman. In this conversation, we discuss the implications of testosterone on fertility, the potential side effects, and the importance of medical supervision. Dr Pearlman also speaks about the role of lifestyle changes and supplements in managing low testosterone and highlights the value of holistic care.Dr. Amy Pearlman is a board-certified urologist with a dedicated focus on male sexual and hormonal health, as well as genital reconstruction. She is renowned for her expertise in providing both medical and surgical therapies for men experiencing erectile dysfunction, penile curvature, and testosterone deficiency. Additionally, Dr. Pearlman offers transfeminine gender-affirming genital surgery. Her approach to healthcare extends beyond surgical proficiency. Dr Pearlman is passionate about educating individuals on the fundamentals of their bodies, promoting healthy behaviors, and empowering people to live their most authentic lives. In this episode, you will hear:·      Understanding Testosterone Therapy: Benefits and Candidates·      Exploring Testosterone Therapy Side Effects and Formulations·      Addressing Fertility Concerns with Testosterone Therapy·      Lifestyle, Diet, and Supplements: Enhancing Testosterone Naturally·      Navigating Testosterone Therapy: Administration and Patient Experiences·      Erectile Dysfunction and Testosterone: Medical and Psychological Aspects FirmTechThank you to our sponsor Firm Tech! Firm Tech's TechRing enhances sexual performance and health monitoring with an easy-to-use smart design. It monitors firmness, length of time, and more in the heat of the moment. Additionally, the Firmtech Max PR, their non-tech ring enhances pleasure and endurance. Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code "Sexology" Sex Quiz for WomenFollow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

28 Maj 202435min

Welcome to episode 387 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Courtney Brame, founder of Something Positive for Positive People, a non-profit organization dedicated to helping those diagnosed with genital HSV2 (herpes) navigate the stigma and mental health challenges that come with the diagnosis. As founder of Something Positive for Positive People, Courntey combines his expertise as a 500-hour registered yoga teacher with his passion for destigmatizing herpes. Through SPFPP, he offers restorative yoga and meditation in support groups, enhancing holistic well-being for those living with herpes. As the host of the SPFPP podcast, Courtney shares inspiring stories of individuals navigating herpes stigma. He extends his advocacy to sexual health education and STD prevention, promoting stigma-free communication among healthcare providers and organizations. Driven to create a world where herpes discussions are empowering and stigma-free, Courtney's work at SPFPP is reshaping sexual health dialogue, offering a blend of wellness practices and empathetic advocacy to build a more understanding community.In this episode, you will hear:·      The Genesis of Something Positive for Positive People·      Navigating Herpes Stigma and Mental Health·      Expanding Support Through Yoga and Community·      Understanding Herpes: Symptoms, Transmission, and Treatment·      Breaking Down Myths and Addressing Stigma·      The Importance of Disclosure and Navigating Relationships·      Resources and Support for Living with Herpes FirmTechThank you to our sponsor Firm Tech! Firm Tech's TechRing enhances sexual performance and health monitoring with an easy-to-use smart design. It monitors firmness, length of time, and more in the heat of the moment. Additionally, the Firmtech Max PR, their non-tech ring enhances pleasure and endurance. Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code "Sexology"Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

21 Maj 202442min

Welcome to episode 386 of Sexology Podcast! Today we are delving into the often-taboo topic of erectile dysfunction (ED), featuring insights from clinical psychologists, sex therapists, physical therapists, and coaches.Across this episode, we will cover the psychological and physical aspects of ED, offering practical tools and strategies for managing this condition. Guest experts, including Dr. Eric FitzMedrud, Dr. Judson Brandeis, Caitlin V, Dr. Susie Gronski, and Darshana Avila, share their top tips for addressing ED, focusing on holistic and embodied approaches to sexual wellness. We also look at the importance of addressing sexual shame, relationship dynamics, and emotional well-being as integral components of tackling ED. We encourage you to consider therapy, coaching, and educational courses as pathways to improve your sexual health and confidence.In this episode, you will hear:·      Tackling Erectile Dysfunction: Breaking the Silence·      Expert Insights: Psychological Perspectives on ED·      Holistic Approaches to Sexual Wellness·      Exploring Physical and Lifestyle Factors·      Physical Therapy and Emotional Intimacy in Sexual Health·      Addressing Erectile Dysfunction: Emotional and Psychological Strategies·      Navigating Solutions: Therapy, Coaching, and Courses FirmTechThank you to our sponsor Firm Tech! Firm Tech's TechRing enhances sexual performance and health monitoring with an easy-to-use smart design. It monitors firmness, length of time, and more in the heat of the moment. Additionally, the Firmtech Max PR, their non-tech ring enhances pleasure and endurance. Grab an exclusive 10% discount using the code "Sexology" Find Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

14 Maj 202425min

Welcome to episode 385 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Nadège. In this episode, Nadège speaks to us about arousal in cisgender men and how to embrace and enhance it by breaking societal norms and constraints. Nadège emphasizes the importance of not shaming sexual fantasies as a step towards achieving quicker arousal.Nadège is a sex scholar, bestselling author, and speaker dedicated to teaching others how to feel healthier and empowered in their sexuality.From a young age, Nadège has been unapologetically curious about sex. Whenever a friend faced heartbreak or a sexual dilemma, she became the go-to person for advice. Over time, Nadège was labelled variously as a slut and a trailblazer—titles she embraces with pride.Over the years, Nadège realized the unique gift they possess in sex education, a gift they are passionate about sharing with the world. On an average day, you’ll find Nadège in her home office, hair in a power ponytail, as she uses her nerd powers for good. When Nadège is not busy researching sex, you can find her at a friend's house geeking out about food, Astrology, or pop culture!In this episode, you will hear:·      Fantasies and Arousal: Embracing Your Desires·      Exploring Arousal for Men: Breaking Down Barriers·      Communication and Connection: Key to Sexual Satisfaction ·      Challenging Societal Norms: Redefining Masculinity in Sex·      Navigating Relationship Dynamics and Sexual Compatibility·      Seeking Help and Embracing Change: The Path to Sexual Fulfillment·      Preventative Measures and Mental Reframes for Arousal Issues FirmTechThank you to our sponsor Firm Tech! Firm Tech's TechRing enhances sexual performance and health monitoring with an easy-to-use smart design. It monitors firmness, length of time, and more in the heat of the moment. Additionally, the Firmtech Max PR, their non-tech ring enhances pleasure and endurance. Grab an exclusive 10% discount at FirmTech using the code "Sexology" Follow Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

7 Maj 202439min

Welcome to episode 384 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Josephine McNary. In this episode, Dr. McNary's insightful discussion sheds light on a topic often overlooked in healthcare conversations. By addressing the sexual side effects of medications, she highlights the significance of holistic patient care. Her emphasis on strategies for managing these side effects underscores the importance of proactive healthcare planning and patient education.Moreover, Dr. McNary's focus on the crucial role of communication between patients and healthcare providers reinforces the foundation of a strong patient-provider relationship. This open dialogue can lead to better understanding, increased trust, and improved overall health outcomes.Lastly, the mention of the potential for sexual function to return to baseline after discontinuation of medication offers hope and encouragement to those facing these challenges. It serves as a reminder that while side effects may be temporary, the benefits of proper medication management and healthcare support can lead to a positive outcome.Dr. McNary is a board-certified general psychiatrist, working with a variety of patients in her outpatient practice. She specializes in medication management and is particularly interested in the use of complementary medicine for mood and anxiety disorders.Dr. McNary has her BA and MA degrees from Stanford University and her MD from Tulane University. From there, she completed her psychiatry residency at the UCLA Neuropsychiatric Institute, where her training included women’s mental health, mood and anxiety disorders, cognitive behavioral therapy, and couples and family therapy.In this episode, you will hear:·      Understanding Sexual Side Effects of Medication·      Personal Experiences and the Importance of Sexual Health·      Navigating Medication Side Effects and Sexual Health·      The Reversibility of Sexual Side Effects and Patient Advocacy·      Strategies for Managing Medication Side Effects·      The Importance of Open Communication and Support·      Exploring Solutions and Resources for Sexual Health Thank you to our sponsor Quince! Grab free shipping + 365-day returns here!Learn How to Cope with Dating Anxiety HereFind Us On InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

30 Apr 202428min

Welcome to episode 383 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Larry Waldman, a recently semi-retired certified school psychologist and licensed clinical, forensic psychologist from Phoenix, Arizona. In this episode, Dr. Waldman discusses the challenges faced in second marriages, highlighting the importance of maintaining positive interactions, how to manage conflicts constructively, and the role sexual compatibility plays in a long-lasting relationship.Dr. Waldman emphasizes positive interactions, constructive conflict resolution, and sexual compatibility as key elements for success in second marriages. Couples can strengthen their bond through appreciation, kindness, and respect, while addressing conflicts through active listening and compromise. Open communication and understanding of each other's needs help sustain a healthy marriage, fostering a strong and fulfilling partnership.Dr. Waldman trained as a public speaker and has presented for PESI.  His signature presentations are: The Business of Private Practice—The Graduate Course You Never Had and Teaching Parents to Parent.  He has made over 150 paid presentations in his career to attorneys, chiropractors, psychologists, family therapists, counselors, social workers, school psychologists and school counselors.In this episode you will hear:·      Exploring the Dynamics of Successful Marriages·      Key Factors in Marital Failures and Solutions·      The Role of Sexual Compatibility in Relationships·      Addressing Sexual Issues and Enhancing Communication·      Insights into Second Marriages and the Importance of Self-Reflection·      Secrets to a Lasting Marriage: Selflessness and Evolution 101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot Find Us on InstagramPodcast Produced by Pete BaileyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

23 Apr 202434min