3862: Stop Making Resolutions (and Just Start) by Jay Harrington of Life And Whim on Consistent Progress

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3237: Rebecca Crespo explains how to overcome perfectionism and embrace a more fulfilling life. By letting go of the need for approval, allowing mistakes, and setting realistic expectations, you can foster self-love and creativity. These steps will help you live more freely and joyfully. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.minimalismmadesimple.com/home/let-go-of-perfectionism/ Quotes to ponder: "You’re not in competition with anyone else but yourself. Letting go of perfectionism begins when you stop comparing your insides with others’ outsides." "Letting go of perfectionism means learning that it’s okay if some people disapprove." "Perfectionism can be a lonely way to live. Letting go means recognizing that you are worthy just as you are, including all your flaws and mistakes." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

3 Juli 202410min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3236: Kristine Klussman explores how intentional use of technology can help decompress, while numbing behaviors, such as mindless screen time, inhibit emotional connection and fulfillment. Recognizing and addressing these behaviors can lead to a more connected and fulfilling life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.kristineklussman.com/numbing-vs-relaxing/ & https://www.kristineklussman.com/sleep-your-way-to-greater-connection/ Quotes to ponder: "When we are engaged in numbing behaviors, we are disconnected from ourselves emotionally, unaware of and unable to feel our real feelings." "Next time you feel that compelling urge to escape or numb a feeling, take a deep breath instead and ask yourself: 'What am I trying to avoid right now?'" "Resisting the urge to numb will help you to build mental muscle, to realize what a powerful force the 'urge' to escape reality is, and to gain a more profound and fulfilling level of connection to life." Episode references: Sleep Revolution by Arianna Huffington: https://www.amazon.com/Sleep-Revolution-Transform-Your-Life/dp/1101904003 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 Juli 202410min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3235: Jen Rao shares insightful advice on the benefits of downsizing early in life, challenging the traditional notion of waiting until retirement. Through personal anecdotes and practical tips, she illustrates how minimizing living expenses and possessions can lead to a more fulfilling and adventurous lifestyle. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.thesimplicityhabit.com/downsizing-early-in-life/ Quotes to ponder: "Money is renewable, time is not. I believe a smaller home makes you rich in time." "My belongings were not adding value to my life. Instead, they were subtracting from it." "To me, life is an adventure." Episode references: Gone with the Wynns: https://www.youtube.com/user/gonewiththewynns Exploring Alternatives: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExploringAlternatives Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1 Juli 202411min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3234: Kylee Lessard explores how the RAIN method, a mindfulness practice, can help individuals address personal fears and insecurities, fostering a better ability to support others and reduce harm in the world. By recognizing, allowing, investigating, and nurturing our emotions, we can create positive ripples that contribute to collective healing and growth. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.ablueskymind.com/blog/rain-method-a-perspective-on-reducing-harm-in-the-world Quotes to ponder: "When we can stay present with our own fear and insecurity, we are better able to be there for others. You can start to be part of the healing of our world by starting with yourself." "Experiment and see which intentional gesture of kindness most helps to comfort, soften or open your heart. It might be the mental whisper, I’m here with you. I’m sorry, and I love you. I love you, and I’m listening. It’s not your fault. Trust in your goodness." "Let’s work on ourselves with the goal of sending as many positive ripples into the world. Enough ripples will create a wave. And we need many waves right now." Episode references: The Power of Now: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

30 Juni 202411min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3233: Dr. Margaret Rutherford offers a heartfelt exploration of loving someone with recurrent depression, sharing Patricia's story to illustrate the complexities and challenges involved. By developing empathy and understanding, loved ones can better support and help manage this difficult condition. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/how-to-understand-when-you-love-someone-with-recurrent-depression/ Quotes to ponder: "Every now and then, the powers that be dig a hole in the floor somewhere, a hole just big enough for you to fall through." "Patricia’s eyes filled with tears. Dan looked at her. 'I’m sorry. Now I get it. I’d be paralyzed.'" "You can help by not judging and by giving them the respectful message that you know they’re trying." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

30 Juni 202410min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3232: Leo Babauta explores how our deep-seated dissatisfaction with ourselves hinders our ability to form positive habits, maintain healthy relationships, and achieve true happiness. By shifting towards self-love and acceptance, we can transform our lives, fostering greater productivity, contentment, and meaningful connections. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://zenhabits.net/dissatisfaction/ Quotes to ponder: "We are unhappy with who we are, sometimes in small ways but often in very fundamental ways." "What if, instead of beating ourselves up (or blaming others), we just accepted what happened and then took appropriate action?" "It starts with the simple intention to love yourself, to see yourself as adequate and worthy of love, to wish for your own happiness and the relief from pain and stress." Episode references: Radical Acceptance: https://www.amazon.com/Radical-Acceptance-Embracing-Yourself-Awakening/dp/0553380990 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

29 Juni 20249min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3231: Creating long-lasting routines is key to self-improvement. Nir Eyal explores why habits formed through extrinsic rewards often fail, and how turning actions into routines can lead to lasting behavioral change. By planning and embracing discomfort, we can successfully integrate new routines into our lives. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.nirandfar.com/habits/ Quotes to ponder: "Offering ourselves extrinsic rewards makes conditioning our own behavior very difficult. It can be exceedingly hard to resist cheating." "Instead of focusing on how hard writing or exercising every day can be, think of the difficulty as part of the journey." "By not expecting every aspiration to become an effortless habit, you increase your odds of success." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

28 Juni 202410min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3230: Trying to build good habits can often backfire. Nir Eyal explains the critical differences between habits and routines, and why understanding these differences is essential for effective behavior change. Learn how to avoid common pitfalls and use the right strategies to improve your life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.nirandfar.com/habits/ Quotes to ponder: "Habit works by generating an impulse to do a behavior with little or no conscious thought." "If some magic laundry-folding fairy appeared and told you not to worry about the task, you’d happily go about your day." "Unlike a routine, which feels uncomfortable to do, in the case of a habit, not doing a behavior feels bad." Episode references: Tiny Habits by BJ Fogg: https://www.amazon.com/Tiny-Habits-Changes-Change-Everything/dp/0358003326 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

27 Juni 202412min