Why You Still Want Them (The Brutal Truth About Trauma Bonding)

Why You Still Want Them (The Brutal Truth About Trauma Bonding)

What does it take to finally walk away after YEARS of manipulation and abus3? In this powerful episode, Lee Hammock (Self-Aware Narcissist) sits down with Louella to discuss her harrowing and inspiring journey of surviving a long-term narcissistic relationship.

Louella shares the raw truth about the "slow erode" of self-esteem, the confusion of the trauma bond, and the specific moment she realized that the person she loved was never going to change. This isn't just a story of survival; it’s a roadmap for anyone currently feeling trapped in a toxic cycle.

In this interview, we dive into:

  • The Long Game: How narcissistic manipulation evolves over the span of many years.

  • The Turning Point: The specific "red flag" that finally broke the spell for Louella.

  • Generational Trauma: How our pasts can sometimes lead us into the arms of a narcissist.

  • Life After the Exit: The reality of healing, helping, and finding peace after the discard.

As a self-aware narcissist, Lee provides feedback on the tactics used against Louella, offering a unique "inside look" at why her ex acted the way he did—and why her decision to leave was the ultimate power move.


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