114 - Major Life Updates and Big Lessons Learned

It has been a while since I’ve done a solo episode and there’s no better time than now. So many things have been happening in my life lately and it goes to show how when things slow down it’s because it’s about to speed up! In this episode, I share some life changing decisions that have been made and the lessons I’ve learned along the way. These decisions were hard to make only because I wanted to be in control. But when I surrendered to the natural cycle of things and realized that I don’t need to know the next step, it all fell into place perfectly. Remember, you get to claim what you have in your life but you don’t claim how or when. And when you’re on the right path, doors will open. Show Notes: [3:01] - Elyse announces that she is moving and that she has a new mentor. She also has openings for private coaching. [4:36] - This year has been great, but there were months that Elyse had slow energy. [6:05] - Elyse was able to achieve a lot this year including the ability to retire her husband early. [8:17] - Things slow down before they speed up. Know the slowness is temporary. [9:54] - What did Elyse focus on during this time to help her through? [11:30] - Elyse and her family are moving and she is excited but it is bittersweet. [13:12] - Although not necessary to move yet, Elyse and her husband felt called to move sooner. [15:54] - Elyse describes the loan experience this time around in buying a new home. [17:04] - Mortgages are not designed well for entrepreneurs. [18:40] - Things will not always pan out the way you think it’s meant to. [19:57] - When you get a clear no on something, you focus on prayer and meditation. [22:20] - Elyse discovered a bank statement loan but had an issue with the lender. [25:35] - Finally, Elyse became frustrated and gave up trying to figure it out and make something happen. [28:29] - The “right” place was taken but Elyse trusted that the better one was meant for her. [30:27] - What else is possible might be better than what you think is the only option. [31:39] - Hold yourself to a higher standard and have higher standards for yourself. [33:24] - Give yourself permission to live the life on your vision board. [36:54] - Elyse hired a shaman and has three coaches that she works with. [38:33] - She has wanted to hire her for a while, but was not called to do so. She had a health issue that was a clear message that she needed deeper healing. [39:50] - Elyse shares one of her daily affirmations and experiences after using it. [43:12] - When you open yourself up to spirituality, you may have seemingly strange experiences. [44:31] - The shaman Elyse is working with knew immediately the scarcity mindset that Elyse grew up learning. [47:00] - She describes a trance her shaman put her in to find something that needed healing. [49:50] - The shaman saw everything Elyse saw in her vision. [51:36] - Get the help, mentoring, and support you need for every part of your life. [53:04] - What is holding you back from your next level is likely not what you think it is. Links and Resources: Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube She Sells with Elyse Archer Home Page