116 - How to Increase the Good You Allow in Your Life

Oftentimes we don’t allow ourselves the things we truly want. And even more often are the times we don’t even know we’re doing that to ourselves. In today’s solo episode, we’re talking about how the good in your life will come when you allow it. This is an important concept because it really goes against the things we’ve been taught. We are told that it is selfish to want certain things or experiences or because of our learned relationships with money, those nice things aren’t for you. But take a moment to think about your self-worth. Sometimes it is not the need for a new script or sales funnel. Upleveling your self-worth and the amount you’re willing to allow will cause a ripple effect of amazing opportunities to flow into your life. So listen on to this episode of She Sells Radio for my three steps to notice your resistance and take the right actions to feel good. How good are you willing to let life get?

Show Notes: [1:47] - A client texted a photo to Elyse that inspired the topic of this episode. [2:52] - Your income will never exceed your level of self-worth. [4:29] - The magic happens when you uplevel the amount you’re willing to allow. [5:58] - Referring to a recent episode, Elyse realized that her heaviness was a mirror of something she needed to work on. She didn’t realize what she wasn’t allowing. [7:32] - You know you’re in a higher vibrational place, the things you want will come in really fast. [8:12] - Challenges are always preparing you for your next uplevel. [8:56] - The first step is simply to notice. We live most of our lives in unawareness. [9:44] - Elyse explains why you should notice your money rules. [12:28] - Your desire for nicer things or experiences is not selfish. [14:08] - Notice where in your life you are not allowing the things you want. [15:34] - It is so difficult to decide what is most important for your time. [17:02] - Elyse shares why she scaled back on work to spend time with her son because that is where she was experiencing the most resistance. [18:27] - Generate clients when you are being yourself. This could be a challenging reframe for you, like it was for Elyse. [19:53] - Because she wasn’t allowing in the possibility of working less, she hadn’t realized the impact it would have on her business. [22:23] - The next step is to create belief systems that support you. DM Elyse for a link on how to rewire your belief systems. [24:21] - Money always shows up to support your expansion. [25:16] - With money, use the word “invest” and not “spend.” [27:07] - To overcome her blocks and rules with money, Elyse had to anchor herself in the idea that she deserved to spend the money on the things she wanted. [28:10] - People who have the things they want, allow themselves to have them. [30:01] - Looking back on an experience with a photographer, Elyse shares the lesson she learned in how unwilling she was to have the thing she wanted. [31:16] - The third step is to relax and focus on feeling good. [32:44] - Your emotions are telling you what vibrations/frequencies you match with. [33:56] - Look outside less and look inside more. [34:51] - Negative emotions create friction and resistance. [36:32] - When you feel good, you will match with what you want. [38:04] - When Elyse started shifting her emotions, huge life and financial uplevels were allowed. [39:20] - Once you allow it in, the opportunities will come in fast. Links and Resources: Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube She Sells with Elyse Archer Home Page