When "Manliness" Is Really Pride in Disguise

“I’ve been fired from four churches in five years because weak men can’t handle my masculinity.”

Yep. That’s a real tweet - and it’s the perfect picture of what happens when men refuse to take responsibility for their own failures.

In this episode, we break down why blame-shifting is destroying the credibility of Christian men, and why building a culture of accountability is essential if you want to lead your home, church, or community with integrity.

If you want to be a man your family trusts, your church respects, and God can use—this is where it starts.

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Chapters

(00:00:00) - Be a Biblical Boss
(00:00:48) - Employee Complaints and the Economy
(00:02:49) - Pastor Loses His Fourth Job in 5 Years
(00:07:35) - This Pastor Lashes Out Over His Long Twitter Rant
(00:11:26) - I Misspoke On The Sukkot Epistle
(00:14:34) - Culture of Accountability and Reparation
(00:15:50) - Proverbs: Open Rejection of Bad Parenting
(00:19:48) - Galatians 6: For Brothers' Accountability
(00:20:19) - What is Repentance?
(00:25:24) - Holding Others to Accountability
(00:26:01) - What Does a Leader Need to Be Like?
(00:34:17) - The Culture of Accountability in a Church
(00:40:38) - The Importance of Conviction, Humility and Openness
(00:44:44) - Call to Action for Christians
(00:46:53) - Look inward before you blame
(00:50:22) - Abraham's Wallet

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