Ep 85 - Why You Haven't Rebuilt Trust Yet

Ep 85 - Why You Haven't Rebuilt Trust Yet

In this podcast, we break down a powerful research-based model for how trust gets rebuilt after it's been broken—and why "just apologize" often isn't enough.

The research we reference explains trust repair as a two-way, back-and-forth process between the person who was hurt (the trustor) and the person who caused the damage (the trustee), where repair happens when efforts to prove trustworthiness outweigh the injured person's need to protect themselves.

You'll learn the three questions people move through after a breach—Did you do it? (guilty vs. innocent), Why did it happen? (you vs. the situation), and Can you change? (fixable vs. fixed)—and how different repair attempts land differently depending on which question is still unanswered.

We'll also cover why integrity-based betrayals are harder to repair than competence mistakes, why mixed messages (denial + apology) backfire, and what "stuck" patterns like avoidance, escalation, or hardened mistrust look like—so you can map what's happening and take smarter next steps toward real trust repair.

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Ep 90 - Why the Betrayed Struggle Without Answers

Ep 90 - Why the Betrayed Struggle Without Answers

Join me, Brad Robinson, LMFT as I dive into the complex emotions and challenges faced by betrayed partners in the aftermath of infidelity. In this episode, I explore why those who have been betrayed o...

11 Feb 35min

Ep 89 - Why does my partner freeze, shut down, or say the wrong thing when I'm falling apart?

Ep 89 - Why does my partner freeze, shut down, or say the wrong thing when I'm falling apart?

Why do they shut down when you're falling apart? Why do they say the exact wrong thing when you need comfort the most? In this episode, we step inside the aftermath of infidelity and unpack a question...

4 Feb 37min

Ep 88 - Healing After Betrayal: Navigating the 10 Biggest Pain Points

Ep 88 - Healing After Betrayal: Navigating the 10 Biggest Pain Points

In this episode, we delve into the profound challenges faced by partners who have been betrayed. Discover the ten most significant pain points that arise after infidelity, from feeling unsafe and grap...

28 Jan 29min

Ep 87 - Stuck After Infidelity? The Cycle That Blocks Trust Repair

Ep 87 - Stuck After Infidelity? The Cycle That Blocks Trust Repair

In this episode we delve into the complexities of healing after betrayal. Discover how couples can break free from the negative cycles that hinder recovery and learn the importance of shifting from de...

21 Jan 31min

Ep 86 - When the Unfaithful Sees the Affair Partner In A Positive Light

Ep 86 - When the Unfaithful Sees the Affair Partner In A Positive Light

In this episode of Healing Broken Trust, we tackle the complex issue of affair nostalgia, a significant emotional roadblock in the journey to reconciliation after infidelity. We explore the listener's...

17 Jan 31min

Ep 84: Why Isn't the Unfaithful Sorry for their Affair? Why Can't They Show Remorse?

Ep 84: Why Isn't the Unfaithful Sorry for their Affair? Why Can't They Show Remorse?

In this episode, we delve into the complex dynamics of apologies following intentional betrayal in relationships. Discover why apologies often fail after deliberate choices and learn what constitutes ...

6 Jan 44min

Ep 83 - Why Do We Remember the Details So Differently?

Ep 83 - Why Do We Remember the Details So Differently?

In this episode, Brad and Morgan Robinson delve into the complex dynamics of memory and betrayal in relationships. Discover why both partners remember infidelity differently and how these memory gaps ...

30 Dec 202537min

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