81. When Your Partner Doesn't Want Non-monogamy with Courtney and Nate (the Mono-Poly couple)
When Courtney proposed opening their marriage on their 17th anniversary, their relationship was struggling. Nate was a devoted father and provider, but he had become emotionally distant. Courtney’s pr...
26 Aug 1h
Open to Open Panel Recording
In this special episode, I'm sharing a live recording from Open to Open, a panel discussion I joined in Denver hosted by coaches Bella Schauer and Booster Blake. We share our personal experiences and ...
16 Juli 1h 29min
80. How To Process Jealousy and Difficult Emotions
In this solo episode, I'm sharing the emotional processing tool that's completely changed the way I handle difficult emotions. It's called RAIN, and while I didn't create it (it was popularized by med...
8 Juli 26min
Opening Up Without The Mess (Meet-up)
What We CoverHow to know if your relationship is readyWhat to expect: jealousy, guilt & imbalanceCommon mistakes to avoidWhy you should move at the pace of the slowest partnerHow to handle jealousy Je...
18 Juni 46min
Bonus ep.79 Exploring Bisexuality as a Man
In this episode, Sam opens up about discovering his attraction to men later in life, what it was like having his first boyfriend, exploring sexual compatibility for the first time, and working through...
26 Maj 19min
79. The Problem with NRE (New Relationship Energy) with Sam Charles
Sex and relationship coach Sam Charles joins me to explore the shadow side of New Relationship Energy: the nervous system rollercoaster. We also talk about the reasons he is no longer over-compromisin...
26 Maj 1h 10min
78. Domming at a Sober Kink Party & My Daddy Issues
Today I share my experience unexpectedly domming someone for the very first time at a sober kink party, and how stepping into my dominant side helped me rethink my relationship with non-monogamy, begi...
12 Maj 37min
77. Kink, Power Dynamics & Knowing When to Walk Away with Vee from Girls Gone Deep
Today, Vee from Girls Gone Deep shares her journey into kink, what makes a great dom, and what people can actually gain from exploring BDSM dynamics. We also dive into what it feels like to want a lev...
28 Apr 1h 8min
