Tepe Murder Aftermath: Therapist on Orphaned Children, Survivor Guilt, and Systemic Failure

Two children are now orphans. A one-year-old and a four-year-old were in the home when their parents Spencer and Monique Tepe were allegedly shot to death. Over a thousand people attended the funeral. A community is still reeling.

And the question that haunts this case: Monique Tepe did everything right. She recognized the abuse early. She left within seven months. She told family about the threats. She moved on and built a healthy new life. She followed every piece of advice we give domestic violence victims. It wasn't enough.

In Part 3 of our three-part expert interview series, psychotherapist Shavaun Scott examines the aftermath. With over thirty years specializing in trauma recovery, Shavaun brings clinical expertise to the hardest questions this case raises.

How do children ages one and four process traumatic loss they can't fully understand? How does a family work through survivor's guilt when they knew she was afraid but couldn't stop this? What does healing actually look like — or is it just learning to live with wounds that never close? And if leaving isn't enough, if telling people isn't enough, if building a new life isn't enough — what systemic changes would actually protect victims from someone who allegedly refuses to let go?

Sometimes the honest answers are the hardest ones.

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Link to Shavaun Scott's Substack Discussing Dangerous Ex's:
https://open.substack.com/pub/shavaun/p/when-leaving-is-the-most-dangerous?r=1fklc&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true

Link to Shavaun Scott's Substack Discussing Dangerous Ex's:
https://open.substack.com/pub/shavaun/p/when-leaving-is-the-most-dangerous?r=1fklc&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true

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