Brandon The Dom1 Maj 2025

How to Be a Better Dominant (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms)

Want to become a better Dominant? In this powerful and candid interview, three experienced Doms share real talk on what it truly means to lead in the bedroom—and beyond.

We dive into:
- The true essence of dominance
- Common mistakes new Doms make
- What to do your first time with a new submissive
- How to step into a dominant mindset
- Proven tools, tips, and techniques
- Plus, some hilarious and eye-opening stories from the field

This conversation originally took place on @Andy_Wells channel and features myself, my co-author Mario Tubone, and Andy himself—three Doms with decades of combined experience.

We're also talking about our new book: Enter the Dom: The No-BS Book on Dominance—a practical, no-fluff guide for anyone looking to deepen their dominant presence.

Whether you're just starting out or looking to level up your power exchange dynamics, this is a must-watch.

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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

(00:00) - - Intro
(00:56) - - Introducing Mario Tubone and Brandon the Dom
(03:56) - - What is Dominance and Submission mean to us?
(09:33) - - Mistake the First Time Doms Make
(10:39) - - What to Do Your First Time with a Submissive Woman
(26:58) - - Intentions and caring for your submissive
(36:12) - - Vulnerability & power as a Dom
(48:23) - - How to try your first kinky things
(01:03:33) - - Starting with dirty talk
(01:12:47) - - Getting into a Dominant Mindset
(01:15:24) - - Surrendering as a Dom
(01:24:57) - - Building trust between the Dom and submissive
(01:41:43) - - A healthy mindset for dating as a Dom
(01:46:02) - - Enter the Dom Book

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MORE RESOURCES:
▶️ 7 Essential Behaviors of a Good Dominant in BDSM: https://youtu.be/X71KFnyNreo
▶️ Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://youtu.be/nvrmToZ8cdc
▶️ What is a Pleasure Dom?: https://youtu.be/OGW7RinAn-o

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