How to Find a Good Dom (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms)
Brandon The Dom3 Sep 2025

How to Find a Good Dom (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms)

Advice from 3 experienced Doms, including @Andy_Wells, Mario, and myself, for submissives focusing on the search for a compatible Dom. Learn key elements of dominance and submission, ensuring a safe and fulfilling dynamic.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Get the Book: https://enterthedom.com/
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:41) - Green flags in Doms
  • (04:21) - Starting slow
  • (08:03) - Discussing play beforehand
  • (16:14) - Meeting the submissive at their level
  • (22:19) - Having humility as a Dom
  • (33:03) - Understanding the intention behind desires
  • (43:20) - Feeling safe with the Dom
  • (47:58) - Asserting yourself as a submissive
  • (52:30) - Handling trauma triggers
  • (56:22) - Separating kink and sex
  • (01:05:38) - Aftercare
  • (01:10:07) - The Overconfident Dom

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
▶️ How to Be a Better Dominant (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms): https://youtu.be/Rg9XLPG3vjQ
▶️ Consent, Trauma, & Healing in BDSM: https://youtu.be/h4plNnW82vw
▶️ What Happens When Kindness Meets Power? (Advice from a Pro Domme): https://youtu.be/5x-7xxPipf8

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