E25 Laughing In The Face of Rejection with Jackie Tohn

Our first caller is wondering how to tell her mom she's being catfished? Our second caller just broke up with her boyfriend of one month, and is wondering if she did the right thing? And, our third caller wants advice on supporting her sister telling her parents that her spouse transitioned to female. “You have to stop yourself. You have to stop thinking about him." Listen to Humble Brag with Cynthia Bailey and Crystal Kung Minkoff every Monday. Available wherever you get your podcasts and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@humblebragpod  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/humble-brag-with-crystal-and-cynthia/id1774286896 https://open.spotify.com/show/4NWA8LBk15l2u5tNQqDcOO?si=c03a23d537f94735 Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/  Please make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@theviallfiles.com to be a part of our Monday episodes.  We’ve partnered with Mint Mobile to open a hot takes hotline to hear your scorching hot opinions! Give us your hot takes, thoughts and theories and we’ll read and react to the best ones on an upcoming Reality Recap episode! All you have to do is call 1-855-MINT-TLK or, if you prefer the numbers, that’s 855-646-8855 and leave us a message. To Order Nick’s Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com  If you would like to get some texting advice, send an email to asknick@theviallfiles.com with “Texting Office Hours” in the subject line!  To advertise on this podcast please email: ad-sales@libsyn.com or go to: https://advertising.libsyn.com/theviallfiles  THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SKIMS - Shop my favorite bras and underwear at https://skims.com  BetterHelp - Talk it out, with BetterHelp.Our listeners get 10% off their first month at https://betterhelp.com/viall  Chewy - Right now you can save $20 on your first order and get free shipping by going to https://chewy.com/viall  ZocDoc - Stop putting off those doctors appointments and go to https://zocdoc.com/viall to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today.  Tru Fru - You can find Tru Fru at Target, Walmart, Whole Foods, Costco or any other major grocery store. And you can follow them on Instagram and TikTok @trufru Timestamps: (00:00) - Intro (01:08) - Caller One (33:21) - Caller Two (01:08:21) - Caller Three Episode Socials:  @viallfiles @nickviall @justinkaphillips @dereklanerussell

21 Juli 1h 34min

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper edition.  Don’t get mad, but our dream dates are here! Everyone’s favorite bombshell couple Iris and Pepe have taken a moment to stop making out to talk to us,  and we could not be more excited! How did Iris feel about America coupling her up with Jeremiah and then the following Huda crash out? Is she still talking to TJ? Does Pepe like any women that are not blonde? Does he miss Hannah? All that, and more. You will not want to miss it.  “Is anyone getting in the pool?" Listen to Humble Brag with Cynthia Bailey and Crystal Kung Minkoff! Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/humble-brag-with-crystal-and-cynthia/id1774286896 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@humblebragpod Listen To Disrespectfully now! Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/disrespectfully/id1516710301 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCh8MqSsiGkfJcWhkan0D0w Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/  To Order Nick’s Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com  We’ve partnered with Mint Mobile to open a hot takes hotline to hear your scorching hot opinions! Give us your hot takes, thoughts and theories and we’ll read and react to the best ones on an upcoming Reality Recap episode! All you have to do is call 1-855-MINT-TLK or, if you prefer the numbers, that’s 855-646-8855 and leave us a message. Are you struggling with any sort of dating, relationship, or life dilemma? Do you want all the answers? Email asknick@theviallfiles.com with your question in the subject line to express interest in appearing on the show!  To advertise on this podcast please email: ad-sales@libsyn.com or go to: https://advertising.libsyn.com/theviallfiles   Thank You to Our Sponsors: Mint Mobile - Get 3-months of Unlimited premium wireless service for $15/month at https://mintmobile.com/viall  BREZ - Head to https://try.drinkbrez.com/viall/ and use the code VIALL for a $5 credit + free shipping on your first order.  Coop Sleep Goods - Upgrade your summer sleep. Visit https://coopsleepgoods.com/viall to get 20% off your first order.  OneSkin - For a limited time you can try OneSkin with 15% off using code VIALL at https://oneskin.co  Prolon - Visit https://prolonlife.com/viall to claim your 15% discount and your bonus gift.  Monarch Money - Get control of your overall finances with Monarch Money. Use code VIALL at https://monarchmoney.com in your browser for 50% off your first year.  Timestamps: (00:00) - Intro + Special Announcement (03:43) - Iris and Pepe Join (01:03) - Outro Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @nnataliejjoy @iriskendall @pepe.garcia15

18 Juli 1h 4min

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Reality Recap!  Love Island USA may be over, but the islanders are the gift that keeps on giving, and we are so excited to welcome winner Amaya Papaya and Bryan to the show to share their experience in the villa and post return! Meanwhile, Susie Evans stops by to chat about her time on a different island, that of Bachelor In Paradise. Did she know Justin was going to be there? What’s it like hanging with the Goldens? All that and Christopher Briney joins us to give us all the tea on the new season of The Summer I Turned Pretty! Plus, we get into the premiere of RHOC, the RHOA Reunion Part 1, and Next Gen NYC. You won’t want to miss it!  “If I shine too bright, look the other way!” Subscribe to The ENVY Media Newsletter Today: https://www.viallfiles.com/newsletter  Listen to Humble Brag with Cynthia Bailey and Crystal Kung Minkoff. Available wherever you get your podcasts and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@humblebragpod https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/humble-brag-with-crystal-and-cynthia/id1774286896 Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/  Please make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@theviallfiles.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. Follow us on X/Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheViallFiles Listen To Disrespectfully now! Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/disrespectfully/id1516710301 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0J6DW1KeDX6SpoVEuQpl7z?si=c35995a56b8d4038 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCh8MqSsiGkfJcWhkan0D0w To Order Nick’s Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com  If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to asknick@theviallfiles.com with “Texting Office Hours” in the subject line! To advertise on this podcast please email: ad-sales@libsyn.com or go to: https://advertising.libsyn.com/theviallfiles     THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Big Ass Candles - Head over to https://bigassluxuries.com and use code VIALL to get 15% off your order.  FirstLeaf - Enjoy the fresh vibes of spring with wines you’ll love from Firstleaf. Go to https://tryfirstleaf.com/viall to sign up and you’ll get your first SIX handpicked bottles for just $44.95.  Trü Frü - You can find Trü Frü at Target Walmart, Whole Foods, Costco or any other major grocery store. And you can follow them on Instagram and TikTok @trufru Timestamps: (00:00) - Intro (07:39) - Bachelor In Paradise Recap with Susie Evans (43:23) - Amaya and Bryan Interview (01:19:43) - Christopher Briney Interview (01:40:27) - RHOC (01:52:44) - RHOA Reunion (01:56:04) - Bravo News (01:58:28) - Outro Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @nnataliejjoy @amayaelizabeth_ @brizzzworks @susiecevans @chrisbriney_ @justinkaphillips @leahgsilberstein @dereklanerussell

17 Juli 1h 59min

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper edition.  In 3…2…1… Chris Seeley is here fresh from the villa and we could not be more excited! We get into everything from how he got on Love Island USA and what initially drew him to Huda to their epic date in the finale, his future in international basketball, and more!  “I truly don’t think that’s the real her" Listen to Humble Brag with Cynthia Bailey and Crystal Kung Minkoff! Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/humble-brag-with-crystal-and-cynthia/id1774286896 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@humblebragpod   Listen To Disrespectfully now! Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/disrespectfully/id1516710301 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCh8MqSsiGkfJcWhkan0D0w   Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/  To Order Nick’s Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com  Are you struggling with any sort of dating, relationship, or life dilemma? Do you want all the answers? Email asknick@theviallfiles.com with your question in the subject line to express interest in appearing on the show!  To advertise on this podcast please email: ad-sales@libsyn.com or go to: https://advertising.libsyn.com/theviallfiles   Thank You to Our Sponsors: Cymbiotika - Go to https://cymbiotika.com/viall for 20% off plus free shipping. Bombas - Head over to https://bombas.com/viall and use code viall for 20% off your first purchase.  Nanit - We have a special offer just for our listeners! Get 20% off your first order with code BABY20 at https://nanit.com  Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @nnataliejjoy @chrisseeley_4

16 Juli 1h 14min

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Reality Recap!  Well, islanders… time in the villa has come to an end :( But the incredible news for us is that everyone is BACK in the mainland and ready for their closeups. Today we’re joined by Taylor and Clarke to get into all things Love Island USA! Does Taylor feel bad about voting Jeremiah off? Do they believe in Nicolandria? And most important… Will Clarke be going to the rodeo with Taylor? All your questions, answered. Also, we’re joined by the wonderful ladies of Disrespectfully, Katie Maloney and Dayna Kathan, to get their take on the Love Island USA finale, some Valley rumblings, and more! Plus, is Bachelor in Paradise getting… good??? We give our takes. You will absolutely not want to miss this one.  “Are you still closed off?” Subscribe to The ENVY Media Newsletter Today: https://www.viallfiles.com/newsletter  Listen to Humble Brag with Cynthia Bailey and Crystal Kung Minkoff. Available wherever you get your podcasts and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@humblebragpod https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/humble-brag-with-crystal-and-cynthia/id1774286896 Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/  Please make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@theviallfiles.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. Follow us on X/Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheViallFiles Listen To Disrespectfully now! Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/disrespectfully/id1516710301 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0J6DW1KeDX6SpoVEuQpl7z?si=c35995a56b8d4038 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCh8MqSsiGkfJcWhkan0D0w To Order Nick’s Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com  If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to asknick@theviallfiles.com with “Texting Office Hours” in the subject line! To advertise on this podcast please email: ad-sales@libsyn.com or go to: https://advertising.libsyn.com/theviallfiles     THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Mint Mobile - This summer, don’t get burned by your old wireless bill. Make the switch to Mint Mobile. Get 3-months of Unlimited premium wireless service for $15/month at https://mintmobile.com/viall   Thrive Market - Stock up smart this summer with Thrive Market. Go to https://thrivemarket.com/viall, to get thirty percent off your first order, plus a FREE sixty dollar gift just for signing up. BILT- Start paying rent through Bilt and take advantage of your Neighborhood BenefitsTM by going to https://joinbilt.com/viall  Helix Sleep - For their Fourth of July Sale: Best of Web Offer, go to https://helixsleep.com/viall for 27% Off Sitewide Rosetta Stone - Don’t wait - unlock your language learning potential NOW! The Viall Files listeners can grab Rosetta Stone’s LIFETIME Membership for 50% OFF! That’s unlimited access to 25 language courses for life! Visit www.rosettastone.com/viall to get started and claim your 50% off TODAY! Timestamps: (00:00) - Intro (09:27) - Love Island with Katie and Dayna (41:10) - Clarke and Taylor Interview (01:20:13) - Post Interview Thoughts (01:23:16) - Exciting Update (01:30:51) - Bachelor In Paradise Recap (01:55:04) - Outro Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @nnataliejjoy @taylor_williams.3 @clarke.y @musickillskate @daynakathan @justinkaphillips @leahgsilberstein @dereklanerussell

15 Juli 1h 56min

Our first caller’s husband’s ex wants cheerleading to be off-limits for her daughter. Our second caller is stuck between her husband and her best friend and doesn’t know which side to choose. And, our third caller is debating if she should wait or let go of a relationship.  “You have to stop yourself. You have to stop thinking about him." Listen to Humble Brag with Cynthia Bailey and Crystal Kung Minkoff every Monday. Available wherever you get your podcasts and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@humblebragpod  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/humble-brag-with-crystal-and-cynthia/id1774286896 https://open.spotify.com/show/4NWA8LBk15l2u5tNQqDcOO?si=c03a23d537f94735 Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/  Please make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@theviallfiles.com to be a part of our Monday episodes.  To Order Nick’s Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com  If you would like to get some texting advice, send an email to asknick@theviallfiles.com with “Texting Office Hours” in the subject line!  To advertise on this podcast please email: ad-sales@libsyn.com or go to: https://advertising.libsyn.com/theviallfiles  THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Butcher Box - Right now, ButcherBox is offering our listeners $20 off their first box and free protein for a year. Go to https://butcherbox.com/viall to get this limited time offer and free shipping always. SKIMS - Shop my favorite bras and underwear at https://skims.com  BetterHelp - Talk it out, with BetterHelp.Our listeners get 10% off their first month at https://betterhelp.com/viall  Happy Thursday - Weekend vibes all summer long.To find out more and find a Happy Thursday near you visit https://drinkhappythursday.com/viall  Caraway - You can shop Caraway Risk-Free! Enjoy fast, free shipping, easy returns, and a 30-day trial. Plus, if you visit https://carawayhome.com/viallfiles you can take an additional 10% off your next purchase Addyi - It’s not about fixing you – it’s about helping you feel like you. So go to https://www.Addyi.com to learn more. Timestamps: (00:00) - Intro (01:28) - Caller One (27:21) - Caller Two (01:03:37) - Caller Three Episode Socials:  @viallfiles @nickviall @justinkaphillips @dereklanerussell

14 Juli 1h 37min

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Reality Recap!   It’s another jam packed episode as TJ and Jaden join to talk about their experience on the island, how it felt to get voted off the way they did, and more! Plus, Monica Garcia returns alongside Christina Cocca to gab all things Love Island USA! How does everyone feel about Taylor and Clarke going home, who had the best baby in the baby challenge, are there any Nicolandria girls in the room? All that, and more. Meanwhile, we get into the most recent 2 episodes of the Valley, more drama from the next Golden Bachelor Mel Owens, and Denise Richards divorce. You won’t want to miss it.  “The fans would love it and Heather Gay would sh*t her pants…” Subscribe to The ENVY Media Newsletter Today: https://www.viallfiles.com/newsletter  Listen to Humble Brag with Cynthia Bailey and Crystal Kung Minkoff. Available wherever you get your podcasts and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@humblebragpod https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/humble-brag-with-crystal-and-cynthia/id1774286896 Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/  Please make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@theviallfiles.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. Follow us on X/Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheViallFiles Listen To Disrespectfully now! Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/disrespectfully/id1516710301 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0J6DW1KeDX6SpoVEuQpl7z?si=c35995a56b8d4038 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCh8MqSsiGkfJcWhkan0D0w To Order Nick’s Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com  If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to asknick@theviallfiles.com with “Texting Office Hours” in the subject line! To advertise on this podcast please email: ad-sales@libsyn.com or go to: https://advertising.libsyn.com/theviallfiles     THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: SKIMS - Shop the SKIMS Ultimate Bra Collection and more at https://SKIMS.com and SKIMS stores.  Nutrafol - For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to https://nutrafol.com and enter the promo code VIALL OpenPhone- OpenPhone is offering our listeners 20% off of your first 6 months at https://openphone.com/viall  Timestamps: (00:00) - Intro (01:51) - Monica Joins (12:46) - Love Island with Christina and Monica (55:58) - TJ and Jaden Interview (01:27:03) - Household Headlines (01:40:51) - The Valley (02:01:01) - Outro Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @nnataliejjoy @monicanikigarcia @tjpalmaa @jadenashleyd @coccamacocca @the_mare_bare @justinkaphillips @leahgsilberstein @dereklanerussell

10 Juli 2h 1min

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper edition.  Trigger Warning: This episode includes content pertaining to sexual assault. Please listen at your own comfort. On June 11th, 2025, jurors acquitted Harvey Weinstein of sexually assaulting Kaja Sokola. However, Weinstein was found guilty regarding another assault charge. Kaja bravely shares her side of the story. From what happened, to who was involved, and to why her family presented the journals… “Don't try to separate women and split us apart." National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): https://rainn.org/about-national-sexual-assault-telephone-hotline  Call 800.656.HOPE (4673) to be connected with a trained staff member from a sexual assault service provider in your area. Listen to Humble Brag with Cynthia Bailey and Crystal Kung Minkoff! Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/humble-brag-with-crystal-and-cynthia/id1774286896 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@humblebragpod   Listen To Disrespectfully now! Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/disrespectfully/id1516710301 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCh8MqSsiGkfJcWhkan0D0w   Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/  To Order Nick’s Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com  Are you struggling with any sort of dating, relationship, or life dilemma? Do you want all the answers? Email asknick@theviallfiles.com with your question in the subject line to express interest in appearing on the show!  To advertise on this podcast please email: ad-sales@libsyn.com or go to: https://advertising.libsyn.com/theviallfiles   Thank You to Our Sponsors: Pura - Right now, subscribe to any two scents for 12 months and get your Pura Plus™ diffuser  free. Don't miss out—this limited-time offer won't last. Visit https://pura.com and claim yours today. Quince - Stick to the staples that last—with elevated essentials from Quince. Go to https://quince.com/viall for free shipping on your order and three hundred and sixty-five -day returns. Fireflies - Right now, when you sign up for a yearly Fireflies subscription, you get your first two months FREE! Just go to fireflies.ai/VIALL   UpWork- Visit https://upwork.com to connect with freelancers and help grow your business. BREZ - Head to https://try.drinkbrez.com/VIALL/ and use the code VIALL for a $5 credit + free shipping on your first order.  Cymbiotika - Go to https://cymbiotika.com/viall for 20% off plus free shipping. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @nnataliejjoy @kajasokola

9 Juli 1h 18min