When Control Becomes Identity

I’m not “winning” in the way I used to think about it. There’s no race, no finish line, no endless striving anymore. Instead, I’m winning in quieter, more personal ways.After a life‑altering event in ...

20 Jan 8min

💌 A letter to my daughters…You are my why, my pride, and my purpose. Every word I wrote to you—about love that never makes you small, courage that sometimes whispers instead of roars, and growth that...

19 Jan 12min

✨ For 11 months I waited. I thought I’d bounce back, that life would resume as normal, that I’d wake up one day and everything would be okay again. But life had other plans.I’ve had to learn that bein...

16 Jan 11min

✨ You can try forever and never end up doing. People throw out the word try so easily, it looks like effort, but it’s really hesitation, a soft no disguised as action. From a distance, trying looks ef...

15 Jan 12min

✨ Podcast #15: Enough — A Mother’s Story of Bullying, Judgment, and Choosing Courage ✨I’ve held onto this blog and podcast for a while, wondering if I should post it. But the more I’ve thought about i...

15 Dec 202521min

Yesterday was one of those rare, quiet days. No treatments, no injections, no clinic visits. Just a slow walk with Pinky and the dogs, and by 3:30 I was back in my pajamas.My girls are scattered acros...

12 Dec 202512min

✨ Episode 13 is live! In this conversation, I open up about resilience, imperfect routines, and the reality of living through change. From crooked Christmas trees to time‑loop doctor visits, it’s raw,...

11 Dec 202515min

In today’s podcast you’ll hear the vacuum in the background, Inanda barking — real life, unfiltered.Hi, my name is Jetaime. Once an IFBB athlete, a former Warrior Elite winner, OCR World Champion in m...

10 Dec 20257min