My friend went from world-class silver medalist to stage 4 cancer.

This episode was definitely the most difficult one I've ever had to edit. So difficult in fact, that this was filmed over a year ago and I avoided rewatching it until now.

Tamara O'Brien is an incredible human and I'm so glad I had the privilege of getting to know her, and so grateful for the impact she had on my life, and so many others.

There is only one other person I have ever met that matched Tamara's spirit - and that's Mindy.

We were chatting about it in one of our earlier (unreleased) episodes, only for us to find out that the date and time of her passing, was almost exactly as Mindy was released from his sentence.

We all get down on ourselves, and can feel insecure and sad about who we are. It shouldn't take a life altering event to make us rethink these negative thoughts.

Let Tamara's story serve as a reminder that you are worth much more than you might believe. Life is short - don't spend it always being hard on yourself.

Cancer is a horrible disease that takes the lives of so many each year. Every May, in honour of Tamara, a bunch of our friends get together and commit to working out every day for at least 30 minutes to raise money and awareness for BC Cancer Foundation.

Feel free to join us at limelightpod.com.

0:00:00 Intro

00:02:00 How I met Tamara O’Brien

00:16:29 Tamara O’Brien wins Silver for Canada

00:20:40 Tamara’s Cancer Diagnosis

00:25:34 Workout to Conquer Cancer

00:43:15 Tamara’s Special Trip to 2018 Worlds

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In this episode we share the story of Tamara O'Brien, a Canadian gymnast and silver medalist in double mini trampoline at the 2017 World Games. A world-class athlete representing Canada in trampoline gymnastics competitions worldwide, Tamara's life took a dramatic turn when she was diagnosed with stage 4 melanoma skin cancer.

Her journey goes from diagnosis to her passing in October 2019, showing her incredible mental strength, positivity in adversity, and resilience throughout her melanoma cancer story. I talk about Tamara's involvement with the BC Cancer Foundation and the Workout to Conquer Cancer fundraising event, which raised awareness about cancer treatment costs within the Canadian healthcare system while supporting cancer research and patient advocacy.

This deeply personal cancer story shows Tamara's unwavering spirit as she faced terminal illness, palliative care, and the complexities of living with a life-changing diagnosis. Despite facing a young athlete tragedy, Tamara stayed positive, embracing self-love, authenticity, and finding meaning in her circumstances.

We talk about the powerful friendships formed through illness, the cancer support community that rallied around Tamara, youth cancer stories, and the incredible timing of significant life events - including the remarkable coincidence of Mindy's release occurring at the exact same date and time as Tamara's passing. This extraordinary connection is the focus of my conversation with Mindy, as I share how I've never met someone so similar to myself as Tamara, except for Mindy.

Tamara's athletic achievement, personal growth, skin cancer awareness efforts, and ability to transform tragedy to triumph gives us insights about human resilience, mental health awareness, living with purpose, and making an impact despite overwhelming challenges. Her legacy as a Canadian sports hero goes beyond her accomplishments in gymnastics to her contributions to the cancer community, melanoma awareness month campaigns, and her celebration of life that touched countless individuals.

This emotional tribute captures Tamara's inspirational athlete story - from her competitive success to her advocacy for cancer patients, skin cancer prevention, and her remarkable approach to overcoming adversity while maintaining hope, love, and an unwavering commitment to living authentically through her cancer treatment journey.