“Give people pleasing the finger!” Fearne’s no longer trying to be liked
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“Give people pleasing the finger!” Fearne’s no longer trying to be liked

Are you a bit of a people pleaser? Wish you could care a little less what people think about you? To celebrate her new book, Likeable: How I Broke Free From The Need To Please, Fearne’s looking at all the ways she sacrificed her needs and self-expression in order to be more palatable to others...

In this chat, Fearne covers:


-The real personal impact of people pleasing


-How exhausting it is showing up as a performative version of yourself


-Catching yourself feeling like a saintly martyr when you’re putting others’ needs first


-Peer pressure making you change yourself to fit in


-Why differing opinions don’t have to mean conflict


-How to be both kind and boundaried


-Prioritising and voicing your own needs


-Being ok with some people not liking you


Fearne’s new book, Likeable, is out now!


Want to join the chat? Send us a voicenote, DM, or comment on Instagram @happyplaceofficial!


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