SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

We've answered the same question a lot lately: How do single men navigate the lifestyle? We've rightfully mentioned the mountain most single men must climb to be successful, In discussing how to raise everyone's game we focused on the fact that many single cis straight men ruin it for everyone as they're everywhere and generally not well behaved. In describing them we used a phrase coined by Madeleine Holden to describe it: "Dick is Abundant & Low Value". Alana Massey expanded on that thought and wrote The Dickonomics of Tinder, a comprehensive treatise on the low expectations game,

Bex Caputo joins Dirty Lola, Mike Joseph, Mister Pent, and Dylan Thomas to discuss how the phrase came into use, why it's useful, and the implications of its use.

While we spoke, we mentioned Billy Procida by reputation. Dylan decided to mention him by name and reference both his blog, "You're Not An Ally, You're An Asshole" and a Storify of people who've been negatively affected by interactions.

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SS 168: We Are All In Charge in the Swinging Lifestyle

SS 168: We Are All In Charge in the Swinging Lifestyle

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SS 167: Talking Dirty - Turning Your Filthy Thoughts Into Naughty Words

SS 167: Talking Dirty - Turning Your Filthy Thoughts Into Naughty Words

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SS 166: Gang Bang The Mailbag 15 - Cheating Males & Unicorns, Girl Girl Play, One Penis Policy, & Bad Swinging Experiences

SS 166: Gang Bang The Mailbag 15 - Cheating Males & Unicorns, Girl Girl Play, One Penis Policy, & Bad Swinging Experiences

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23 Juli 20141h 12min

SS 165: Gang Bang The Mailbag 14 - Swinging & Fairness, Fluid Bonding, & Oral Herpes Disclosure

SS 165: Gang Bang The Mailbag 14 - Swinging & Fairness, Fluid Bonding, & Oral Herpes Disclosure

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SS 164: Getting Naked on Camera: Taking Nude Pictures with Guest Elle Chase (Lady Cheeky)

SS 164: Getting Naked on Camera: Taking Nude Pictures with Guest Elle Chase (Lady Cheeky)

In many ways, swinging is a lot like regular online dating, searching through profiles, reaching out via email. In one way, it's not so much. Naked pictures. Oh, sure, regular online dating involves a...

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SS 163: Swinging For Dummies VI: The First Date

SS 163: Swinging For Dummies VI: The First Date

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26 Juni 20141h 14min

SS 162: Don't Forget To Buckle Your Condom - Eroticizing Barriers

SS 162: Don't Forget To Buckle Your Condom - Eroticizing Barriers

We're all well aware of the risks inherent with sex, and we don't always like to use those barriers that keep us safe. From gloves and dental dams to the almighty condom, eroticizing barriers is what ...

18 Juni 20141h 5min

SS 161: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On The Swingset

SS 161: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On The Swingset

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