Most People Are Dating on Autopilot

Most People Are Dating on Autopilot

You think your dating choices are yours… but there's invisible rules shaping your sex, love, and identity. However, there is a disruption that queer, kinky, and non-monogamous people are leading, exposing amatonormativity, and the fantasy of desire that isn’t actually yours. To break down how to unlearn, rebuild, and finally choose yourself, we put Feeld’s new Reflections tool to the test; because self-discovery shouldn’t feel like homework. The script stopped working. Now what?

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00:00 intro
00:54 Do we make our own choices?
07:44 The bedroom crossover
16:54 Subliminal beliefs we hold
25:50 social rewards and punishments
34:01 ananormativity
29:44 grow out if it
44:49 compulsory heteronormativity
46:43 can't name it can't claim it
50:31 finding your true desires
53:11 scary things that won't kill you
57:39 are you happy?


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