Why Some Apologies Never Work (And What Actually Releases Resentment) with Jon Bui

Why Some Apologies Never Work (And What Actually Releases Resentment) with Jon Bui

How much discomfort do you need to feel in order to speak or acknowledge hurt?

So many of us wait until the pressure builds—until the guilt, tension, or emotional weight becomes impossible to ignore—before we finally say something. In this episode, we explore in a Part2 Episode with Jon Bui creator of The Negotiated Apology

In this Episode:

  • how discomfort can actually be a guide rather than something to avoid.
  • Taking accountability without collapsing into shame or self-criticism
  • Moving out of the cycle of blaming others or blaming yourself

Jon teaches people to apologize using high level negotiations and problem solving skills regularly utilized by lawyers. As a graduate of Lewis & Clark School of Law, he is transforming the conflict resolution industry by empowering people with strategy and empathy to transform mistakes into relationship building opportunities. His training is essential for organizations seeking to build a powerful and everlasting positive culture; and for leaders who wish to lead with trust, accountability, and humanity.


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