261 Jan Talen: Struggling Kids, Stressed Marriage. Where Do You Start?

261 Jan Talen: Struggling Kids, Stressed Marriage. Where Do You Start?

Hey Friends~

We are in the middle of the series “When Communication is hard” to discuss a topic that is just as important and impacts our kids. That is—the strength of the parent relationship itself. Today’s conversation with Jan shifts the focus to how, when parents grow in connection and calm, it creates a foundation that helps even the most challenging behaviors begin to settle.

What if the key to calmer kids isn’t another parenting technique, but strengthening your relationship as a couple? Jan and I explore how to choose what’s both nice and necessary in stressful moments so connection isn’t lost when tension rises, and why putting the parent relationship first actually helps children feel more secure. You’ll hear simple ways to walk yourself through overwhelming moments so your calm and logic can “hold” your emotions, allowing you to respond with clarity instead of frustration. And throughout it all, we come back to gratitude, growth, and celebration—because when you begin to shift, even in small ways, your child often follows.

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Dinalynn

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ABOUT THE GUEST: Married with kids can be a marriage wrecker. Jan knows it doesn’t have to be that way. Using her marriage and family knowledge and skills, she developed the pathway for new parents to stay together while parenting their kiddos and keeping their marriage relationship strong. She practiced this (with Chip) within their own marriage and family of 4 kids. The D of divorce was squashed. Their marriage and family turned into one filled with the A’s of appreciation and adoration. Being connected, communicating well and resolving confusion and conflicts is doable and even enjoyable while moving from Family Crazy to Family Calm with the DNA Way to Communicate.

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257 When Kids Know More Than They Can Say: Expressive & Receptive Language Delays and DLD, part 4

259 When Communication Is Hard: Autism, ADHD, and Language Processing Differences, part 5

260 Melissa Schulz: Have A Strong-Willed, Highly Sensitive, or Neurodiverse Child?

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