How to Deal With Your **** So Your Kids Don’t Have To: Breaking Cycles of Anger, Rejection, and Shame with Eli Harwood

How to Deal With Your **** So Your Kids Don’t Have To: Breaking Cycles of Anger, Rejection, and Shame with Eli Harwood

In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, we sit down with attachment therapist and author Eli Harwood to explore the heart of her new book, How to Deal With Your $%$! So Your Kids Don’t Have To: An Encyclopedia for Ditching Your Emotional Baggage—releasing April 14.


At the core of this conversation is a simple but profound truth: your kids can feel what you don’t heal.


Together, we unpack how unprocessed anger, experiences of rejection, and lingering shame can quietly shape the way we show up as parents. These patterns often surface in our hardest moments—during conflict, disconnection, or discipline—and can unintentionally be passed on to the very children we’re trying to support.


Eli offers practical, no-nonsense guidance to help parents recognize their emotional triggers, work through their own internal experiences, and respond with greater intention and connection. This is not about perfection—it’s about awareness, repair, and doing the kind of work that changes family patterns over time.


In this episode, we explore:


*How anger, rejection, and shame show up in parenting

*Why children carry what parents don’t process

*Tools to begin healing your own emotional patterns

*Strategies to handle big emotions in the moment

*How to break generational cycles and build secure, connected relationships


✨ Her new book, How to Deal With Your _________! So Your Kids Don’t Have To, releases April 14—your roadmap to shedding emotional baggage and raising children who feel safe, seen, and secure. Order HERE : https://www.attachmentnerd.com/books/how-to-deal-with-your-so-your-kids-dont-have-to

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Det här avsnittet är hämtat från ett öppet RSS-flöde och publiceras inte av Podme. Det kan innehålla reklam.

Avsnitt(196)

Parenting Your Out-of-Control Teenager: What to Do When Nothing Seems to Work with Dr. Scott Sells

Parenting Your Out-of-Control Teenager: What to Do When Nothing Seems to Work with Dr. Scott Sells

Your teenager barely leaves their room. They're gaming for hours, avoiding school, pushing every button, and every conversation ends in an argument. You've tried consequences. You've tried backing off...

19 Aug 42min

Stop Talking to Your Child About Their Feelings (all the time) with Tania and Tammy

Stop Talking to Your Child About Their Feelings (all the time) with Tania and Tammy

For years, parents have been told to talk to their children about their feelings. But what if talking isn't always what children need most?In this episode of The Child Psych Podcast, child psychologis...

12 Aug 20min

What a Child’s Brain Needs to Thrive: Dr. Daniel Amen on Anxiety, ADHD, Screens, and Building Mental Strength

What a Child’s Brain Needs to Thrive: Dr. Daniel Amen on Anxiety, ADHD, Screens, and Building Mental Strength

In this episode of The Child Psych Podcast, Tammy sits down with Dr. Daniel Amen, physician, double board-certified psychiatrist, founder of Amen Clinics, and author of *Raising Mentally Strong Kids",...

5 Aug 54min

Autism in Women: How My Son's Autism Diagnosis Led to My Own with Julie M. Green | Motherness

Autism in Women: How My Son's Autism Diagnosis Led to My Own with Julie M. Green | Motherness

Why are so many autistic women missed in childhood? And what happens when a parent's journey to understand their child leads to a life-changing discovery about themselves?In this episode of The Child ...

29 Juli 24min

Common Phrases Parents Should Stop Saying (And What to Say Instead) with Tammy Schamuhn & Tania Johnson

Common Phrases Parents Should Stop Saying (And What to Say Instead) with Tammy Schamuhn & Tania Johnson

Are well-meaning parenting phrases doing more harm than good?In this episode of The Child Psych Podcast, child psychologists Tammy Schamuhn and Tania Johnson unpack five common phrases many parents us...

22 Juli 21min

Raising Boys with Purpose: Dr. Alan Hahn on Masculinity, Mental Health, and Mentorship

Raising Boys with Purpose: Dr. Alan Hahn on Masculinity, Mental Health, and Mentorship

Boys are struggling — academically, emotionally, socially, and developmentally. But what do boys actually need to grow into healthy, grounded, responsible young men?In this episode of The Child Psych ...

15 Juli 38min

When Your Child Falls Apart Over “Nothing”: Sensory Processing, Meltdowns, and the Nervous System

When Your Child Falls Apart Over “Nothing”: Sensory Processing, Meltdowns, and the Nervous System

Why does your child fall apart over “nothing”—the wrong socks, a transition, a loud sound, or being asked to leave the house? In this episode of The Child Psych Podcast, Tammy sits down with pediatric...

8 Juli 50min

A Story of Love, Loss, and Healing with Emily Souder and Mahaley Patel

A Story of Love, Loss, and Healing with Emily Souder and Mahaley Patel

Content Note: This episode includes discussion of infant loss, grief, and NICU trauma.Some stories change us forever.In this deeply moving episode of The Child Psych Podcast, we sit down with Emily So...

1 Juli 37min

Populärt inom Utbildning

det-skaver
historiepodden-se
rss-bara-en-till-om-beroende-medberoende
nu-blir-det-historia
not-fanny-anymore
rss-viktmedicinpodden
harrisons-dramatiska-historia
allt-du-velat-veta
johannes-hansen-podcast
roda-vita-rosen
i-vantan-pa-katastrofen
rikatillsammans-om-privatekonomi-rikedom-i-livet
rss-max-tant-med-max-villman
sektledare
rss-basta-livet
rss-traningsklubben
sa-in-i-sjalen
kan-jag-sa-kan-du-podden
sex-pa-riktigt-med-marika-smith
rss-okrystat