S2 E31. Resentment as a Signpost and a Guide

S2 E31. Resentment as a Signpost and a Guide

Often resentment indicates an unmet wanting. An unmet wanting of friendship, love, acceptance, inclusion, approval, desire, fairness, or something else. When you have resentment toward someone that isn’t moving through you, allow this to be an invitation for reflection. Let yourself go back into that relationship, that encounter, and replay it. Ask yourself if there are any places you can take accountability for communicating to the other person that they could treat you in a way that isn’t reciprocal, that isn’t balanced, that isn’t actually in alignment with how you want to be treated? I find resentment can often be the feeling left over when we forfeit our power to another person. When we wait for them to approve of us, we stop seeing our own worth and standing up for it. This visualization, of going back to take radical accountability of how you might have permitted an imbalance to happen in the relationship can shift everything. This reflection can shift the power back to you and finally let you move through this feeling and fully let go of the resentment.

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S2 E37. End of Season 2: The Changing of Seasons

S2 E37. End of Season 2: The Changing of Seasons

This episode wraps up season 2 of the Unfolding podcast! What a beautiful ride it’s been. This episode also includes an invitation to check internally on your own changing seasons and to ask what need...

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S2 E36. The Importance of Who You Surround Yourself With

S2 E36. The Importance of Who You Surround Yourself With

It’s important to accept what is, in relationships. What you have control over is you, and how you show up, not how others show up or how others change. Not everyone has the same capacity, that’s not ...

11 Okt 20245min

S2 E35. The Limits of Self-Care

S2 E35. The Limits of Self-Care

You can’t self-care yourself out of a fundamentally misaligned part of your life. Self-care in other areas could create the space and habit to see what needs to be changed in the misaligned area, but ...

9 Okt 20244min

S2 E34. One Way to Check In on What’s an Aligned YES or NO

S2 E34. One Way to Check In on What’s an Aligned YES or NO

Here I’ll share a practice that I use for checking in on what’s an aligned YES or me, and what’s an aligned NO. The more I do this, the more attuned I get to myself, and the faster I understand what i...

7 Okt 20248min

S2 E33. Taking a Curious Look at Procrastination

S2 E33. Taking a Curious Look at Procrastination

Procrastination can take many forms. It tends to be around pushing off something hard, or uncomfortable. Procrastination is an action of pushing off that’s driven by emotion. And emotion is a messenge...

4 Okt 20246min

S2 E32. Encountering a Boundary Area That’s Internally Misaligned

S2 E32. Encountering a Boundary Area That’s Internally Misaligned

We all have boundary areas that can feel a little like quicksand, or walking into a foggy field. They’re a blind spot to us. This can often be because we were taught at an early age that we didn’t get...

2 Okt 202410min

S2 E30. Using Shame as a Guidepost for Healing

S2 E30. Using Shame as a Guidepost for Healing

If you let it, shame will be a neon pointing you to where you have more healing to do. Shame shows us parts of ourself that we haven’t accepted. Parts that we have withheld compassion, understanding, ...

27 Sep 202411min

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