The Weird Duality of Grief No One Talks About
My Mom Died8 Dec 2025

The Weird Duality of Grief No One Talks About

What do you do when your grief doesn’t look the way you thought it would?

In this episode, Gabri unpacks a rarely discussed emotional paradox: the way grief can make you feel completely numb and, at the same time, too empathetic to function. She shares how losing her mom rewired her ability to process emotion — from not crying at the funeral, to breaking down over things that had nothing to do with her loss.


We talk about:

- What emotional shutdown looks like after deep loss

- How grief can make you hyper-aware of everyone else’s pain

- The guilt of not grieving "correctly"

- Why your emotional responses might surprise you

- And how to start giving yourself grace for the ways grief shows up in your body and brain


This isn’t about finding the silver lining — it’s about naming the weird middle ground of feeling everything and nothing at the same time.

If you’ve ever felt like you weren’t grieving the “right” way, this one’s for you.


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