
#272 | How Cheating Robs You of the One Thing You Actually Need
Have you ever wondered why someone who's having an affair can still feel profoundly alone? In this episode, Todd Creager continues his series on how cheating cheats the cheater — and this time he look...
1 Juni 6min

#271 | How Cheating Cheats the Cheater: What Infidelity Really Costs You
What if the person most harmed by an affair isn't the one who was betrayed — but the one who did the betraying? In this solo episode, licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Todd Creager returns to one...
25 Maj 9min

#269 | Why Willpower Fails in Sex and Intimacy — And What Actually Helps
What if the part of you that shuts down sexually — or the part that keeps reaching for porn — isn't a character flaw? What if it's trying to protect you? In this solo episode, licensed Marriage and Fa...
11 Maj 10min

#268 | Why Betrayal Feels Like a Life-or-Death Trauma — and What's Really Happening Inside You
If you've discovered a partner's affair and wondered why the pain feels like it might actually kill you, you're not overreacting. In this episode, Todd explains exactly why betrayal trauma hits so dee...
4 Maj 12min

#267 | Why You Keep Having the Same Fight — And How to Finally Stop
Do you and your partner keep circling the same argument, no matter how many times you've tried to resolve it? The problem might not be what either of you is saying — it might be who is actually doing ...
27 Apr 10min

#266 | The Civil War of Betrayal: Why You Love Them and Want to Leave at the Same Time
After discovering a partner's affair, many people ask the same question: Am I going crazy? You love this person deeply — and part of you wants to walk out the door. That contradiction isn't a sign so...
2 Apr 13min

#265 | The Venus Fly Trap: Love, Borderline Personality Disorder, and the Relationships That Change You
What draws someone back to a relationship they know is hurting them — and what does it take to finally walk away? In this episode, Todd sits down with author and spiritual counselor Stephen Paul Edwar...
19 Feb 46min



















