The Dating Advice Men NEED To Hear | Jordan Candlish

In this episode of the Billion Dollar Babie Podcast, we sit down with relationship and mental health expert Jordan Candlish. We dive deep into modern relationships, emotional availability, masculinity, attachment, heartbreak, self-worth, and what real love actually looks like. We talk about why so many men struggle with vulnerability, why emotionally unavailable relationships feel addictive, and how childhood wounds shape the people we choose to love. From attachment vs real love, to healing trauma, masculine leadership, purpose, God, relationships, and emotional maturity. This conversation gets brutally honest about the reality of dating in today’s world. Instagram https://www.instagram.com/billiondbabie https://www.instagram.com/taruhhh https://www.instagram.com/jordancandlish01 Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@billiondbabie CHAPTERS: 00:00 Why Most Men Feel Empty After Success 00:35 Real Love vs Attachment 01:26 Relationships Are Meant To Wake You Up 02:01 Why People Don’t Feel Safe In Love 02:34 Masculine Stability In Relationships 03:48 Why Men Avoid Emotional Intensity 04:09 His Toxic First Relationship Story 06:45 Healing Heartbreak & Meeting His Partner 07:05 Why Men Become Emotionally Closed Off 07:52 Men Growing Up Without Masculine Guidance 08:43 How Emotional Avoidance Destroys Relationships 09:18 Heartbreak: Destruction Or Awakening 10:32 Why Women Try To “Fix” Men 11:06 Dating Emotionally Unavailable Men 11:52 Childhood Wounds & Relationship Patterns 12:23 Work Addiction & Neglecting Love 14:49 Men Avoiding Inner Work 15:44 The First Domino Men Need To Change 16:25 Work, Porn & Validation Addiction 18:00 Why Women Feel A Man’s Energy 18:40 Fish Love vs Real Love 20:07 Why Men In Their 20s Feel Lost 22:09 The 5 Stages Of Masculinity 23:08 Women Maturing Faster Emotionally 24:31 Childhood Criticism & Self Worth 25:14 Becoming Secure Within Yourself 26:25 Relationships Mirror Your Wounds 28:41 Why Insecure Men Become Controlling 30:41 Healthy Boundaries vs Toxic Control 32:00 Emotional Immaturity In Men & Women 33:02 Why People Seek Attention Outside Relationships 35:10 Healthy Relationships Require Self Awareness 36:31 The “Me Me Me” Mentality 38:24 Why Success Alone Will Never Fulfill You 39:31 Making Money Your God 40:42 Ignoring Your Emotional World 42:10 Settling In Life & Relationships 43:12 Passion, Purpose & Attraction 44:32 The Biggest Relationship Problem Men Face 46:10 Why Codependency Kills Attraction 47:49 Men Need Male Friendships & Brotherhood 49:00 Insecurity Creates Control 49:53 Attachment Love vs Real Love 51:22 Why Most Relationships Feel Fake 52:17 Choosing The Right Partner Matters 53:02 Trauma Bonds vs Authentic Love 54:15 Healthy Relationships Still Feel Challenging 55:10 Why Avoidant Men Can’t Commit 56:52 Men Addicted To Validation & Dopamine 58:10 Removing Dating Apps & Distractions 59:27 Sitting Alone With Your Pain 1:00:18 Why Men Fear Being Alone 1:01:14 Disconnecting From Dopamine Addiction 1:02:32 Masculine Commitment & Purpose 1:03:50 Why So Many Men In LA Feel Lost 1:05:18 Stripping Away Distractions 1:06:44 Creating Space To Hear Yourself 1:08:10 The Power Of Solitude & Sabbath 1:09:44 Why Men Need Stillness 1:11:03 Emotional Vocabulary & Expression 1:12:44 Why Closed Off Men Struggle In Love 1:15:24 Toxic Masculinity & Emotional Shutdown 1:16:35 Can Successful Men Also Be Emotionally Open? 1:17:25 The Problem With Modern Masculinity 1:19:32 Why Controlling Relationships Always Fail 1:20:30 Real Love Means Freedom 1:21:30 Where To Find Jordan & His Men’s Groups 1:22:10 Final Thoughts & Outro #relationships #dating #selfdevelopment #mentalhealth #love #heartbreak #masculinity #relationshipadvice #healing Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices