From the talkative I have learned to keep quiet; from the intolerant to be indulgent, and from the malevolent to treat others with kindness. And strange as it may seem, I feel no gratitude towards

This masterpiece of irony comes from Kahlil Gibran (author of The Prophet).
It explores the concept of the "Anti-Mentor." Usually, we think we learn best from heroes and role models. But Gibran argues that we learn just as much—perhaps more—from the people we never want to become.
Here is the breakdown of this bitter wisdom:
Learning via Repulsion: We often don't realize the value of silence until we are trapped in an elevator with someone who won't stop talking. We don't appreciate kindness until we are the target of cruelty.
The "vice" in others acts as a mirror. When you see how ugly intolerance looks on someone else's face, you make a subconscious vow: "I will never let myself look like that."
You become virtuous not out of inspiration, but out of a desire not to be like them.
The Lack of Gratitude: The second half of the quote is the most honest. "I feel no gratitude towards these teachers." This validates your feelings. You don't have to thank the person who bullied you, even if that bullying made you stronger. You don't have to be grateful to the bad boss who taught you what not to do.
They were not trying to teach you; they were just being themselves.
The growth happened in you, not because of their benevolence, but because of your resilience. You took their garbage and turned it into fertilizer. That is your achievement, not theirs.
The Conscious Choice: It takes effort to meet malevolence with kindness. The natural reaction is to fight fire with fire (to shout back at the talkative, to hate the intolerant). Gibran suggests a higher path: Compensation. Because there is so much noise in the world (from them), I will add silence. Because there is so much hate, I will add love to balance the scales.
"The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury." — Marcus Aurelius
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