The Idea Of... The Long Game of Parenting

What song can make you cry before the first lyric even starts?

This week, Mike and Bassey compare their personal "Cry About It" playlists and tumble into a conversation about James Blake, Jeff Buckley, Donny Hathaway, Billie Eilish, Kanye West, and Jay-Z—artists whose music doesn't just entertain, but evokes something deeper.

But as often happens on The Idea Of..., the conversation expands beyond music.

What starts as a discussion about songs that move us becomes a reflection on artistry, attention, media literacy, and whether we've lost the ability to truly listen. Mike and Bassey unpack the reaction to Jay-Z's recent freestyle, debate what separates timeless artists from viral moments, and explore how technology, algorithms, and modern culture shape the way we experience music.

The conversation then turns toward something even more personal: their sons.

Through an honest discussion about parenting young men, they reflect on confidence, peer pressure, identity, and the difficult balance between allowing children to find their own way while still passing on the values, culture, and wisdom that shaped them. As their sons move into adulthood, Mike and Bassey wrestle with questions many parents face: How much do we guide? How much do we let go? And when do the lessons we've planted finally take root?

It's a conversation about music, fatherhood, culture, growing up, and growing older.

Because sometimes the hardest part isn't teaching someone what to think.

It's teaching them how to listen.

Det här avsnittet är hämtat från ett öppet RSS-flöde och publiceras inte av Podme. Det kan innehålla reklam.

Avsnitt(78)

The Idea Of... Three Mirrors: A Hovchella Weekend (An Extra Innings Episode)

Three concerts. Three cities. Three completely different versions of the same question:Where do I belong now?Mike takes listeners on a deeply personal journey through one unforgettable weekend—seeing ...

29 Juli 1h 11min

The Idea Of... The Death of Expertise

What happens when everyone has a platform, but nobody agrees on who to trust?Bassey and Mike begin with an honest conversation about mental health, unpacking the subtle signs of depression, anxiety, a...

22 Juli 1h 22min

The Idea Of... Compassion Before Commentary

This week starts with soccer......and somehow ends with parenting, grief, race, and what happens when tragedy collides with the internet.Mike and Bassey unpack everything from World Cup coaching decis...

8 Juli 1h 8min

The Idea Of... Lauryn Hill's Flowers

The World Cup may have brought us into the conversation, but this episode quickly becomes something much bigger.Mike and Bassey unpack why soccer finally feels different in America, how Black athletes...

2 Juli 1h 35min

The Idea Of... The Blackest World Cup Ever

This week, Mike and Bassey wander through a conversation that begins with Michael Jackson and ends somewhere between the World Cup, social media outrage, Black leadership, and the challenge of remaini...

24 Juni 1h 22min

The Idea Of… The Age of Uncertainty

This week, the conversation takes a turn inward. If you've ever felt stuck, disconnected, uncertain, or simply tired, this conversation may feel familiar.Mike and Bassey begin with a listener comment ...

17 Juni 1h 10min

The Idea Of... Selling Crack

This week on The Idea Of…, Bassey & Mike start with a conversation about podcasting, originality, and the strange feeling of hearing your ideas echoed back through culture. But what begins as a conver...

27 Maj 1h 36min