The Manifesting Canine: Love, Ghosting and the Relationship Escalator

In this episode, Adam and Leonie move from canine chaos and accidental innuendo into a bigger conversation about dating, ghosting and what happens when connection does not quite land the way we hoped.

After Leonie shares the emotional comedown of two promising connections going quiet, the conversation opens up around ghosting, mixed signals, therapy-speak, emotional responsibility and the difference between someone meaning something in the moment versus being able to follow through with care.

They also unpack Olivia Dean’s Something in Between and use it as a jumping-off point to explore freedom, autonomy and what it means for love to have room to breathe within ENM. From there, Adam and Leonie dig into the relationship escalator, the pressure to make relationships “progress” in expected ways, and how non-monogamy can invite us to question what commitment, growth and legitimacy actually look like.

It’s a funny, reflective and very honest episode about desire, disappointment, liberation and learning how to sit somewhere in between.

Loved the episode? Want to help keep The ENM DNM alive, growing and making gorgeous chaos?

Support the podcast here

Your support helps us make the podcast and helps fund free and subsidised therapy for people who may not otherwise access it.

Come say hi: socials

Want to book a counselling session with Adam? Halaxy

We’re also keen to hear from collaborators, sponsors, guests and partners. hello@enmdnm.com

Please note: this podcast is for conversation and reflection, not therapy, medical advice or crisis support.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Det här avsnittet är hämtat från ett öppet RSS-flöde och publiceras inte av Podme. Det kan innehålla reklam.

Avsnitt(24)

Dear ENM DNM: Your fear is not illogical

Adam and Leonie are back with another Dear ENM DNM, and this one is a big one.A listener wrote in. They're a queer guy dating two people, one of whom is immunocompromised. There's a long standing agre...

14 Juli 57min

ENM Rules, Agreements or Just Vibes?

Adam and Leonie are back on their phones, scrolling through non-monogamy Reels and giving their honest (and sometimes very strong) opinions on what they find. It kicks off a proper chat about the diff...

7 Juli 59min

Running Events Safely: What Organisers Need to Do

Adam and Leonie kick off by talking about Wet on Wellington, the gay sauna in Melbourne they've visited as a space to hang out, relax and chat with mates. But this episode quickly moves beyond one ven...

30 Juni 59min

Kink Corner: Barefoot Juliette and Shibari

In this Kink Corner episode, Adam and Leonie sit down with Barefoot Juliette to talk all things Shibari, the Japanese rope art that's part performance, part intimacy practice, part mindfulness.Juliett...

23 Juni 1h 20min

The ENM Glossary: What Do These Words Even Mean?

In this episode, Adam and Leonie are joined by Ari to attempt something brave, foolish and probably impossible: making sense of some of the terms people use in ENM and non-monogamy. From ENM, CNM and ...

16 Juni 1h 18min

Dear ENM DNM: The calendar is the metamour

In this episode, Adam and Leonie open up the Dear ENM DNM inbox after someone writes in about a very familiar ENM problem: the calendar. They talk through a situation involving nesting, shifting plans...

9 Juni 1h 11min

What It’s Like to Date Adam and Leonie

In this episode, Adam and Leonie turn the mic on themselves and unpack what it’s actually like to date them.From communication styles and emotional needs to attraction, boundaries and the little quirk...

26 Maj 1h 15min