EP 9: Inside Bi Fuck Fest: 21 Years of Bi Male Community, Culture & Access

For over two decades, Bi Fuck Fest has existed in bi male spaces as something almost mythical.

Some people don’t believe it’s real.

Others believe it’s real but have no idea how to find it.

In this episode, we sit down with the third owner and current organizer of Bi Fuck Fest to talk about its 21-year history, how it began, what a multi-day BFF experience looks like, and how the vetting process works.

We cover:

• The origin story of BFF

• What first-timers can expect

• The culture and structure of the event

• How discretion and safety are handled

• How someone can request access and be considered

Links to the official group pages and application paths are included in the show notes below.

This conversation isn’t about hype. It’s about transparency, legacy, and why dedicated spaces for bi men still matter.

To contact the organizer for consideration to join BFF simply join and log into any one of the swing lifestyle sites below and contact them under username CUTEONES.

Kasidie

****For the first month of free full access to Kasidie.com use the code CUTEONES

The Lifestyle Lounge Memberships

Signup Page - SDC.com

To contact the organizer to join BFF on the following platforms, use the username CUTEONES1

Swingers Lifestyle Community | Adult Personals | Clubs & Events

FetLife: World's Largest BDSM, Kink, and Fetish Community | FetLife

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**What We Talk About on this Podcast**

- Challenges and stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle

- How supportive partners play a crucial role in exploration and understanding

- Building a stronger, more open community together

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