Why Moderation is a Myth - Inner Circle Ep 21

You already know which habits are costing you. You just keep negotiating with them anyway. In this episode of The Inner Circle, Mike and Kevin go after the moderation myth — the comfortable story most people tell themselves that lets them stay stuck exactly where they are. The conversation moves from drinking to fitness to the second-order effects of every choice you make, and lands somewhere more useful than discipline advice usually does. They discuss: - Why moderation is harder than abstinence, and why the people who swear by it are usually the ones who need it most - What second-order effects actually look like when you trace a habit far enough down the line - How to go completely off the rails without breaking self-trust — and why the container matters more than the content - Why "I'm so disciplined" is something neither of them hears as a compliment, and what that reveals about how habits actually work - The difference between chasing performance and building a life that performs — and why the distinction will catch up with you eventually If you have been telling yourself you will clean it up soon, this episode is worth an honest listen. The gap between knowing and doing is not a discipline problem. It is a decision you keep postponing. Connect with Kevin and Mike on X for more from The Inner Circle: Kevin Dahlstrom: https://x.com/Camp4 Mike Brown: https://x.com/mbrown_co

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Following the Next Track - Inner Circle Ep 19

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The Rules That Got You Here Won't Get You There - Inner Circle Ep 18

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