Episode 24: Life After Covert Narcissistic Abuse - Rediscovering the Wonder of God Within Us and Around Us

In this episode of Unseen but Not Untold, Dr. Zacharia, integrative covert narcissistic abuse recovery expert and board-certified endocrinologist, explores wonder and what it means to rediscover it after covert narcissistic abuse.

Through personal reflection and spiritual insight, she shares how survivors move out of survival mode and emotional constriction into a life where awareness expands and the ability to fully experience life begins to return. Healing becomes not just leaving the abuse behind but reclaiming curiosity, stillness and a sense of vitality.

She reflects on wonder found in both extraordinary and everyday moments, from the vastness of space to the quiet details of nature and daily life. Through her travel experiences, including her first solo trip abroad, she shares how these moments gave her reprieve and reminded her of the sweetness of doing nothing—dolce far niente—opening the door to a deeper sense of wonder she would later experience while walking in her divine purpose.

Drawing from Scripture, Dr. Zacharia highlights a few of the many moments in the Bible where people were left in a state of wonder through the miracles and intercessions God performed on their behalf.

Using the symbolism of the owl and the feather, she highlights two expressions of wonder.

For those healing after covert narcissistic abuse, this episode is a reminder that wonder is not lost. It is further amplified as you heal, bringing a renewed sense of peace, clarity and connection to God in both profound and simple moments.