It's Not Just a Headache: Ellie Fitzgerald on Living With Chronic Migraines

It's not just a headache. Not even close.

In this episode, Jess is joined by Ellie Fitzgerald, The Cyclist's most regular guest and, as it turns out, a fellow migraine sufferer, for a conversation that is equal parts validating, practical, and genuinely funny. If you've ever had someone tell you to just have a Panadol and drink some water, this one's for you.

Ellie takes us right back to her very first migraine at nine years old, Easter weekend, a backseat full of chocolate, and three days bedridden. From there, migraines became a constant presence in her life through primary school, intermediate, and beyond. Two or three days a week at her worst. Vision loss so complete she couldn't see the paintings on the wall in her classroom. A 40-minute aura that gives her just enough warning before the headache, the nausea, and the numbness down her left side set in. At 35, she's still navigating them.

Jess shares her own experience, three years of chronic tension headaches so severe she couldn't see properly, a visit to the headache clinic, and the medications she's tried along the way. They compare notes honestly, including what works, what doesn't, and what they wish people around them understood.

This episode covers the full picture of what living with migraines actually looks like, the aura, the attack, and the migraine hangover that sometimes hits harder than the migraine itself. The triggers that are impossible to fully pin down. The jobs affected, the opportunities missed, the wedding day fear that it would all fall apart. The moment Ellie's boss wouldn't let her go home while she was vomiting behind the shop counter, because her boss had never experienced a migraine and just thought she had a headache.

They build a practical migraine toolkit together, what Ellie always keeps in her handbag and what's always waiting at home, including the eye mask, the full sugar Coke, the salty fries, the peppermint roller, sunglasses, earplugs, and electrolytes. They also talk about Cadence Head Ease, the riboflavin-based supplement Jess and Kat developed for exactly this community, which Ellie has been on for three months and credits with reducing the severity of her attacks.

This is a short episode, intentionally so, because Jess wants you to send it to someone. A partner, a friend, a boss, anyone who has ever minimised what you go through. Because understanding is the thing that makes it easier to live with.

Find Ellie on Instagram @ellie__haines

Find Cadence Head Ease: https://www.cadencewellbeing.com/products/headease

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