Perfectionism Rewired7 Okt 2020

People Pleasing

Discover how people-pleasing perpetuates dishonest relationships, why we often choose to prioritize others’ wants and needs over our own and the detrimental effects people-pleasing has on our personal and professional lives. Plus, get the 3 key steps to ending this deceptive cycle.

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Join me as I explain why we often choose to prioritize others’ wants and needs over our own and the detrimental effects people-pleasing has on our personal and professional lives. Plus, I share 3 key steps to ending this deceptive cycle.

Inside This Episode on People Pleasing You'll Learn:

What it means to people please, what it actually is and why we do it.
Causes of people pleasing
Why you have anxiety when you try to prioritize yourself.
3 steps to ending this deceptive cycle of performing and pleasing.
How you can begin prioritizing yourself and finally live the life you love.

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

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