Perfectionism Rewired15 Sep 2023

Pretending To Have It All Together? Harmful Perfectionism Psychology You Need To Know

As perfectionists, we're expected to have all the answers, to be strong, in control and the one everyone we love can depend on. But what about when we have out own doubts, fears or frustrations? We often resort to wearing a mask pretending to have it all figured out to meet others' expectations. Explore the impact of pretending to have it all together and the POWER waiting for you when you unmask your true, secure, whole, perfect self.

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Inside This Episode You'll Discover:

00:00:00-Introduction

00:03:18-Unspoken Pressures and Expectations on Perfectionists

00:04:19-Sedation and Avoidance of Connection

00:05:44-Desire for More and Judgment of Classic Perfectionists

00:06:14-Consequences of Dismissing Signs of Perfectionism

00:07:26-Importance of Having Perfectionistic Support

00:08:57-Decisions reflection of fear vs your true, secure, whole, perfect self

00:09:33-Connection as a Choice (Mamba Mentality)

00:10:34-High Cost of Not Getting Perfectionistic Support

00:11:04-Difference Between Challenge and Struggle for Parisian Perfectionists

00:12:34-Value of Proper Coping Mechanisms for Perfectionists

Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.

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