Narcissist or Victim

Narcissist or Victim

I saw a video this week that said people who lack empathy are garbage, and it triggered me into a rabbit hole about narcissism. This will be confrontational and controversial, but really my goal is to give you an alternate perspective on how this is defined in our culture and the dynamics that are created by both partners. I get into why the person giving and giving is also being selfish, and how/why your resentment is an indicator. I walk through a listener situation where the guy starts to distance himself after he gets emotionally vulnerable. I'll give you my take on why this happens and how to let go when it does. Remember, empathy is not responsibility.


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Chapters:

0:00 Narcissists vs Victims

34:07 When Empathy Goes Too Far

37:47 Handling Resentment

45:44 Angry When Someone Stops Choosing You

52:29 Listener's Situation: Distance After Getting Too Close

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