Ep. #275. Immediate Action Drills for Healing, and the long term plan

The most effective healing I’ve found so far

1. Immediate Intervention
2. Connection. Speak with someone…ANYONE about what’s going on, how you are feeling. Preferably, someone who is trained at listening. Call a crisis line in your area, or call a friend and say the words, “I need you to talk to you, and I need you to listen”. If you do this, put in the caveat…. ”Please just let me vent, and don’t offer solutions unless I ask…ok?”

Connect with yourself. Get outside, sit on the ground, and breathe deeply for 2 minutes.

If you are having an anxiety attack, find 3 blue things, 3 red things, 3 yellow things in your environment and name them. Then 3 big things, 3 small things, 3 pretty things. This is a grounding exercise.

Also, look at any object, (I prefer horizons) and trace the outline…slowly from right to left, or counter-clockwise if it’s round. Continue..slowly, and focus as much as you can.

Name 10 things you are grateful for…then name 10 more.

1. TheFastest acting treatments
   1. NLP, 22zero
   2. EMDR
   3. Psychedelic therapy
   4. Reconsolidation therapy
   5. Nature
   6. Exercise
   7. Diet, fasting, Ketosis
   8. Drink lots of water…nothing with sugar in it
   9. Proper Peer Support,
   10. Armwrestling, Jui-jitsu, judo, dancing, Banghra
   11. Listen to My show, or any similar show you may prefer. This allows you to connect to other peoples stories, and connection is healing.
   12. Classical music
   13. Cannabis
2. Lifestyle choices to keep you level, promote healing, and build the “new you”
   1. Daily Habits
   2. Make your darn bed
   3. Declutter the house, garage, car, closet, and your schedule
   4. Eat clean. Nothing processed. Supplement correctly.
   5. Move your darn body. Lift something, swim,
   6. Find a community
   7. Be someone who you like, and respect
   8. Grow, learn, language, skills, knowledge
   9. Participate in therapy
   10. Equine Assisted Therapy, self awareness
   11. Help someone. Then, …help some more.
       1. Mow lawn for free
       2. Deliver groceries
       3. Do laundry
       4. Clean a house
       5. Volunteer at any organization
       6. Pick up garbage on the street
       7. Pick up poop at the dog park
       8. Fix something for someone, car, porch, clothes,
       9. Cook someone a meal
       10. Smile
       11. Pay a compliment
       12. Encourage someone
3. If helping isn’t for you, then stay busy with something creative.
   1. Leatherwork
   2. Painting
   3. Sculpture
   4. Musical instrument
   5. Singing
   6. Mechanics
   7. welding/fabrication
   8. Software development
   9. Write a book
   10. Podcast
   11. Create an event

Nobody is going to save you.

Superman and Wonder Woman will not show up. Not ever.

Only you can choose to act.

When you’re in hell, keep your feet moving.