Ep. 166: We've Got To Stop Pumping People Up With Our Great Expectations

Ep. 166: We've Got To Stop Pumping People Up With Our Great Expectations

Trying to get something or someone to live up to the picture we painted in our mind can be a great source of hurt for us humans. It's something we have to strive to do less of to heal, grow and learn. What Natalie highlights in the first episode of 2020, though, is how part of what keeps us stuck in this disappointment cycle is that, sometimes, the very people who can't or don't want to meet those expectations *still* want us to continue expecting. Why? Because they benefit from it.

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Ep. 312 You: A Beginner's Guide with Toni Jones of Shelf Help

Ep. 312 You: A Beginner's Guide with Toni Jones of Shelf Help

Natalie chats with Toni Jones, founder of Shelf Help book club and author of "You: A Beginner's Guide." They explore the shame stories we carry from childhood, why doing self-help in community matters...

22 Maj 49min

Ep. 311 Life's Inevitables: Why Stress, Conflict, Criticism, Disappointment, Rejection, and Loss are Not the Enemy

Ep. 311 Life's Inevitables: Why Stress, Conflict, Criticism, Disappointment, Rejection, and Loss are Not the Enemy

Natalie explores life's inevitables — stress, conflict, criticism, disappointment, loss, and rejection — and explains why trying to avoid them is what's really keeping you stuck. She breaks down each ...

8 Maj 37min

Ep. 310 How to Know If Someone Is Trustworthy (And Why Safe People Don't Demand Trust)

Ep. 310 How to Know If Someone Is Trustworthy (And Why Safe People Don't Demand Trust)

Natalie answers a question that weighs on lots of us: "How do I know if I can trust people?" She breaks down what trust actually means, why ease can feel suspicious when you're used to struggle, the d...

24 Apr 22min

Ep. 309: How to Stop Letting the Fear of Disapproval and Conflict Run Your Life

Ep. 309: How to Stop Letting the Fear of Disapproval and Conflict Run Your Life

Natalie shares what she's learned from managing her fear of disapproval, criticism, and conflict. Where it comes from, how it plays out, and how to shift your relationship with these inevitable parts ...

10 Apr 33min

Ep. 308: How to Be Selfish: Reclaiming the Right to Self with Suzy Reading

Ep. 308: How to Be Selfish: Reclaiming the Right to Self with Suzy Reading

Natalie talks with psychologist Suzy Reading about her book "How to Be Selfish" and reclaiming the right to self-care and self-advocacy. They explore childhood conditioning, toxic resilience messaging...

27 Mars 56min

Ep. 307: Why Resentment Shows Up and What to Do About It

Ep. 307: Why Resentment Shows Up and What to Do About It

Natalie explores resentment as a signal from your body that you've crossed your own boundaries. She shares two personal stories - one where resentment led to a necessary conversation, another where it...

27 Feb 39min

Ep. 306 Quiet ADHD in Midlife: When You Don't Fit the Stereotype with Gabrielle Treanor

Ep. 306 Quiet ADHD in Midlife: When You Don't Fit the Stereotype with Gabrielle Treanor

Natalie talks with coach Gabrielle Treanor about ADHD in midlife, particularly for quieter, introverted women who don't see themselves in stereotypical presentations. They explore late diagnosis, sham...

13 Feb 1h 12min

Ep. 305: The Beginning of the End: Spotting Your Jump the Shark Moment

Ep. 305: The Beginning of the End: Spotting Your Jump the Shark Moment

Natalie explores 'jumping the shark' moments in relationships, those incidents of disrespect or disconnect that signal the beginning of the end. Episode show notes:  Leave a voice note: https://www.sp...

30 Jan 25min

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