#91-“I don’t even recognize that person”: DTF Tanya two years after her first sex club experience

In August 2026, I sit down with DTF Tanya to reflect on two years since we first met at a DTF night at Oasis in August 2024, when she reached out through my fan page and I showed up as her “orgy director” for her first multiple-men scene. We revisit that first night, talk about how preparation, consent, and clear boundaries shaped the experience, and how my guidance helped her focus on what she wanted. Tanya shares how the lifestyle made her feel like she found what was missing, helped her grow socially, and led her to discover she’s both an exhibitionist and a submissive. We discuss what she’s learned about communicating desires with men, how she now prefers more curated, present experiences, and what’s still on her bucket list, including exploring a male-female-female threesome. We also talk about building genuine community friendships through the lifestyle and where to find more of our content on our fan pages. 00:00 Two Year Check In 01:00 How We First Connected 02:07 DTF Night Vlog Begins 03:23 First Fantasy Debrief 07:51 Advice For First Timers 09:01 Back To The Party 10:33 Cringing At Old Footage 12:55 How Tanya Has Evolved 15:59 Finding The Sweet Spot 17:44 Curated Scenes And Newcomers 19:57 First Nights at Oasis 21:17 Familiar Faces and Flirting 23:41 Finding Sub and Exhibitionist 26:14 Lessons from Many Men 29:22 Coaching Better Club Sex 33:46 Bucket List and Bisexual Curiosity 38:24 Community Beyond the Sex 43:18 Advice for Newcomers Over 50 45:30 Wrap Up and Where to Follow *description written with the help of AI* Check out my friends fan pages (including DTF Tanya): ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TUFriends⁠ Content mentioned in this episode: 1. DTF Tanya's first night at Oasis Aqualounge having a gang bang: https://youtu.be/IUG4njltYAs?si=OFPgYWxDTi-TccHs ***** Get your free Swinger Lifestyle Starter Kit - learn what to expect, common mistakes to avoid, and how to walk into a sex-positive space without feeling out of place: 👉⁠⁠⁠⁠https://torontounicorn.kit.com/starterkitpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ready to go deeper? Check out my full sex club and swinger lifestyle courses at ⁠⁠⁠⁠LevelUpWithTorontoUnicorn.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ ***** ALL social media links (YouTube, podcasts, fan page, etc): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ DIRECT link to my explicit TorontoUnicorn fan page: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://OnlyFans.com/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ***** Sign up for my email newsletters to stay up-to-date on TorontoUnicorn news, events and swinger lifestyle resources: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://torontounicorn.kit.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠ ***** 🎙️Did you know I have multiple uncensored podcasts? Links: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicornPodcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -- Want to own something I wear, use, recommend or chuckle at? Check out my Amazon storefront! *affiliate links provide me with a small commission* 🇺🇸 Amazon storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/torontounicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🇨🇦 Amazon storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.ca/shop/torontounicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ***** Please rate this podcast 5 stars and leave a comment to help others discover it too :) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices