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E145: The Fawn Response Revisited: Why You Over-Apologize and How to Stop

Have you ever caught yourself apologizing for something that genuinely did not need an apology? Sorry for asking a question. Sorry for having a preference. In this episode we’re taking another look at fawning, one of the lesser-known trauma responses, and why it shows up everywhere from work to romantic relationships.

We reframe fawning as an intelligent survival adaptation, not weakness, and walk through where it comes from and how it quietly runs in the background of adult relationships.

By the end of this episode you’ll have a new reframe, “I can hold space for myself first,” and a concrete practice for pausing before you smooth something over that didn’t need smoothing.

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This podcast supports women healing trauma, attachment wounds, codependency, anxiety, perfectionism, people pleasing, overthinking, and rebuilding self-worth, self-trust, boundaries, and confidence through trauma-informed guidance.

Through honest, grounded conversations, it explores the real human experience of growth and leadership, the tension between purpose and rest, boundaries and connection, and how choosing awareness and compassion creates a more aligned and authentic life.

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E150: One Tool, Three Patterns: The Anchor Practice for Dissociation, Certainty-Seeking & Comparison

Monday's episode named three patterns a lot of listeners recognized in themselves. Today: one tool that works for all three.Underneath drifting away, needing proof, and comparing your present to your ...

23 Sep 11min

E149: You're Not Broken, You're Time-Traveling: A Listener Q&A on Presence, Certainty & Comparison

Do you ever catch yourself drifting out of a moment you actually wanted to be present for? Or find yourself needing proof that a new relationship is "safe" before you can relax into it? Or notice you'...

21 Sep 40min

E148: Who Am I Without This Role? A Quick Identity-Rebuilding Practice

Still feeling like you lost a piece of yourself along with the role? Let’s find what’s still there.We go deeper into Monday’s reframe, “this role ending doesn’t erase who I’ve become,” with three spec...

16 Sep 13min

E147: Rebuilding Your Identity After a Role Ends: A CPTSD Survivor’s Guide

Have you ever felt like you lost yourself the moment a role in your life changed, even a role ending that was healthy, expected, or something you wanted? This episode is about why that disorientation ...

14 Sep 35min

E146: How to Stop Over-Apologizing This Week: A Fawn Response Reframe

Caught yourself apologizing again today? Let’s practice something different.We go deeper into Monday’s reframe, “I can hold space for myself first,” with three specific ways to practice it and a short...

9 Sep 16min

E144: How to Stop Overthinking Every Decision: A CPTSD Reframe Practice

Still replaying a decision from earlier this week? This midweek reframe gives you something concrete to actually use before your next one.We go deeper into Monday’s reframe, “I trust myself to learn a...

2 Sep 16min

E143: Why CPTSD Makes Decision-Making So Hard (And How to Trust Yourself Again)

Do you research every decision into the ground, ask five people for their opinionbefore trusting your own, or feel real physical anxiety when there’s no clear right answer? Inthis episode we’re naming...

31 Aug 33min