281. When is the right time to have sex? (and why you keep asking everyone but yourself)

The way you do one thing is the way you do everything.

So when you're stressed about the question "when is the right time to have sex??" and outsource your answer to another dating expert or another tiktoker, I hear an opportunity to build a life changing skillset that will create clarity for this question (and all questions)....

That skillset? Self-trust.

When you build the skill set of self-trust, with sex, with friendships, with romance, with work, it all gets more easeful.

Episode 281 unpacks what this question is really asking and gives you a framework to come to your best answer, whatever it is. Not just for this. For everything.

Because the skillset of self-trust will help you get clarity everywhere.


Inside this episode:

→ Self-trust defined: the firm reliance on the integrity of yourself. It does not mean everything goes your way. It means you will have your back no matter what happens.

→ ACK. Acknowledge, compassion, kind reframe. The self-coaching tool Lily teaches in main character dating, applied to a decision you have been agonizing over.

→ The small self-trusting decisions that you can make today that will start to build self-trust.

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