What NO ONE Tells You Before Becoming an Author | Talk Spicy to Me

What do we wish someone had told us before becoming authors?

In Season 3, Episode 8 of Talk Spicy to Me, bestselling romance authors Giana Darling and Kandi Steiner get candid about the realities of building a writing career - from finding your author brand and marketing your books to handling bad reviews, creative burnout, writer's block, and the pressure that comes with turning your passion into a business. Whether you're an aspiring author, indie author, or longtime romance reader curious about what really happens behind the scenes, this episode is packed with honest publishing advice and lessons Giana and Kandi learned the hard way.

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TImestamps:

00:00 - Welcome to Talk Spicy to Me

04:34 - The Spice Report

11:20 - Giana's Road to Ruin publishing update

15:04 - Kandi's current writing project

22:21 - Kandi announces Hot Mess

24:34 - What we wish we knew before becoming authors

25:36 - Passion doesn't guarantee readers

29:35 - Slow down before you publish

31:46 - Finding your author brand

35:46 - When writing starts to feel like a job

40:04 - Readers won't experience your book the way you do

41:42 - Bad reviews are inevitable

44:28 - Other authors are NOT your competition

47:42 - Success comes in seasons

52:13 - Don't let your backlist die

53:48 - Stop being rigid with your writing process

56:13 - "I don't believe in writer's block"

57:00 - Balancing art and business

59:43 - Pushing through when writing feels hard

1:00:54 - Why authors need to learn to say no

1:03:22 - Red Flag or Green Flag: stalking

1:05:35 - Reader question: do real people inspire characters?

SPONSORS: This season of Talk Spicy to Me is brought to you by Lauren Blakely and Kat Singleton! Lauren Blakely is the bestselling author of sexy, funny, feel-good romance, including Just Playing for Keeps, a grumpy-sunshine hockey romance with fake dating, viral heartbreak, and a broody tattooed hockey hero.

Follow Lauren Blakely:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurenblakelybooks/

Website: https://laurenblakely.com/

Kat Singleton is the author of In Good Company, a forbidden billionaire romance featuring an ex's brother, private chef, age gap tension, and a dreamy Hamptons setting.

Follow Kat Singleton: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/authorkatsingleton/?hl=en Website: https://authorkatsingleton.com

BOOK CLUB: We're reading The Hot Shot by Piper Rayne! Join us for the September 9th episode when Giana and Kandi break it all down.

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