#38: Wife Snatching, Lifestyle Etiquette When Making The 1st Move & Common Courtesy!

18 plus only.

Beyond Vanilla is an adults-only podcast discussing relationships, ethical non-monogamy, sexual health, lifestyle experiences and the realities of navigating non-traditional relationships. This episode contains mature discussions and is intended for listeners aged 18 and over.

Wife snatching?! What actually counts as acceptable behaviour in the lifestyle?

This week on Beyond Vanilla, we're answering another listener question and diving into the often-unspoken rules of lifestyle etiquette...

How should you actually message people in the lifestyle? What is appropriate to say, and what definitely isn't? How do you approach couples without making assumptions? And what should you do when someone makes it clear that they're not interested?

We also get into group experiences and orgy etiquette, including respecting personal space, understanding boundaries, communicating clearly and remembering that consent applies at every stage of an interaction.

Amy and Emily share some of their own experiences, including stories about messages they've received, situations where people have ignored or pushed past their boundaries, and the lessons they've learned along the way.

This is a really honest conversation about something that doesn't always get talked about enough: being a decent human being in the lifestyle.

Whether you're completely new to non-monogamy or you've been navigating the lifestyle for years, there's something here for everyone.

Listen, learn, laugh with us, and maybe rethink that message before you hit send.