Episode 45 | Other People Will See Your Light Before You Do

In this episode, I explore the strange power dynamics people create in situations where there never needed to be one in the first place. Sometimes an offer to help, do you a favor, or take something o...

18 Sep 23min

The life you envision for yourself may require more effort, discipline, and intention than simply doing what’s comfortable, and there’s nothing wrong with wanting that. In this episode, I discuss inve...

20 Aug 14min

Is it homophobic or biphobic to not want to date a bisexual man? My take: go where you are wanted and accepted. Someone can fully support your right to exist, respect your sexuality, and still decide ...

12 Aug 36min

A viral voice memo has sparked a heated debate about dating, boundaries, manipulation, and consent. I'm breaking down why I believe so many people are missing the bigger picture. In this episode, I di...

22 Juli 20min

With the recently released Michael Jackson biopic generating so much excitement, I wanted to visit one of the greatest examples of manifestation in modern history. Michael Jackson didn't just dream bi...

26 Juni 29min

We have to take responsibility for the outcomes in our lives. Avoiding accountability can keep you stuck in cycles that feel out of your control, when in reality, your decisions are shaping your reali...

20 Maj 20min

What happens when someone builds a platform around "never getting married"... and then gets engaged? In this episode, I break down the psychology behind rejecting and advocating against things you may...

8 Maj 19min

Not everyone will celebrate your success. Some people grow uncomfortable when you keep winning. In this episode, I talk about how high performance can trigger insecurity, resentment, and even subtle f...

28 Apr 10min