EP343 – Exploring the Sensual Whispers: Unpacking ASMR in Intimacy

Welcome to episode 356 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Cory Torgerson. In this episode, we discuss how erectile dysfunction is on the rise, affecting both older and younger men, the way porn addiction can contribute to this issue and how unrealistic expectations about sex can also impact erectile function.  Dr. Torgerson has been frequently invited to teach and lecture on these topics across North America. His entire medical education and surgical training was completed at the prestigious University of Toronto, within their Toronto hospitals and the University Health Network. Dr. Torgerson has received national recognition from his patients and colleagues for his incredible surgical skills. He is certified by the Royal College of Physicians and Surgeons of Canada in head, neck, facial surgery. In order to obtain this certification, Dr. Torgerson was required to complete additional years of training. Dr. Torgerson’s skills have been showcased on Global News, 16×9, The Marilyn Denis Show, The Morning Show, City News, and E! Beauty Channel Beauty News.   We invite you to experience the rewards of a welcoming environment where you can expect to be listened to, understood, and delighted with the outcome. Dr. Torgerson is here to help empower you to make the changes you desire to lead a truly beautiful life.   Considered a leading facial plastic surgeon in Toronto, Canada, Dr. Torgerson is able to provide his patients with a completely fresh and artistic approach to plastic surgery. With a finely honed gift for pinpointing specific areas that need to be treated, Dr. Torgerson is able to creatively and successfully provide the highest level of facial and nasal plastic surgery.     In this episode, you will hear:  How Erectile dysfunction is on the rise, affecting both older and younger men Understanding vascular issues are a common cause of erectile dysfunction The way porn addiction can contribute to erectile dysfunction How unrealistic expectations about sex can also impact erectile function The way lifestyle choices like diet and exercise can help prevent erectile dysfunction Looking at supplements available for erectile dysfunction and their effectiveness How testosterone replacement therapy can help improve erectile function Understanding the The Big Shot non-surgical male enhancement procedure   Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast   YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sexologypodcast  Hard Penis Check List https://oasis2care.com/hard-penis-checklist/  Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

17 Okt 202331min

Welcome to episode 355 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Matthias Rose. In this episode, we discuss ejaculatory control and its benefits, the challenges in redefining the concept of orgasm and the initial challenges people may face when learning ejaculatory control.  Since 2012, Matthias Rose has been a prominent figure in neo-tantric sacred sexuality and classical tantric spirituality, serving as a teacher, guide, healer, and practitioner. His transformative journey with Tantra has taken him beyond traditional teachings, leading him to provide guidance primarily focused on relationships, sexuality, masculinity, and spirituality through a tantric lens.   As a Relationship Coach, Matthias Rose collaborates with individuals seeking to revamp their relational lives, including finding new partners, healing existing relationships, or exploring fresh possibilities. His expertise spans ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, trust repair, deepening emotional and sexual intimacy, and aligning with one's authentic self while embracing masculine or feminine aspects. He draws wisdom from his life's experiences, marked by mistakes and personal growth, offering insights with a genuine presence and loving non-attachment, emphasizing the essence of loving with an open heart.   In his role as a Sexuality Guide, Matthias Rose underscores the pivotal role of sexuality in personal development. He has gained expertise in various areas of human sexuality, attracting individuals seeking guidance in these specific realms.    In this episode, you will hear:  Understanding ejaculatory control and its benefits Separating ejaculation from orgasm is possible through techniques like Tantra Emotional connection and pleasure in cultivating non-ejaculatory orgasms How ejaculatory choice involves delaying or choosing whether to ejaculate The challenges in redefining the concept of orgasm How ejaculatory orgasms and non-ejaculatory orgasms are distinct experiences Evolving definition of masculinity and the value of open heartedness The initial challenges people may face when learning ejaculatory control Matthias’s personal journey and how he rediscovered this practice through Tantra  Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  Sexual Health Alliance Program https://sexualhealthalliance.com  Sexual Bucket List https://sexologypodcast.com/bucket-list/ Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audioAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

10 Okt 202325min

Welcome to episode 354 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with David Chambers. In this episode, we discuss the challenges faced by individuals in their pursuit of enhanced sexual experiences. We explore a myriad of factors, ranging from psychological challenges such as performance anxiety and body image concerns to physical issues like cardiovascular health and the impact of medications.  David Chambers embarked on his journey into the world of relationship coaching driven by a sincere desire to escape the anguish of failed relationships, conquer commitment fears, and infuse his life with genuine joy.   Growing up in a single-parent, female-dominated household, he grappled with understanding masculinity and healthy romantic partnerships. His twenties were characterized by empty encounters aimed at gaining validation and confidence, alongside an aversion to commitment rooted in the dread of rejection or making the wrong choice. Consequently, his relationships were marred by toxicity, conflict, stress, and infidelity.   In 2007, David initially entered the realm of relationship and dating coaching, only to realize that merely teaching men superficial confidence and conversation skills fell short of creating lasting change. Recognizing the need for inner transformation, he embarked on a transformative global journey, learning from expert coaches, collaborating with best-selling authors, and undergoing profound personal growth.   David's mission is to share the wealth of dating and relationship insights he's gained, guiding men on their path to self-healing and self-mastery. "The Authentic Man" seeks to unearth the root causes hindering men from forging profound relationships, dismantling these barriers, and leading them toward lasting, fulfilling relationships and fulfilling, intimate, and passionate lives.     In this episode, you will hear:  Challenges faced by penis owners in lasting longer during partner sex How relationships and partner interactions can affect sexual performance Discussion on the significance and non- significance of penis size Understanding psychological challenges: performance anxiety, worries about size The potential negative effects of steroid use on sexual performance  How distraction is a common problem in sexual experiences Suggestions to improve presence during sex include breath practices How masturbation can lead to quick arousal leading to premature ejaculation The ways meditation, deep breathing and yoga can enhance sexual experiences How being present doesn't necessarily exclude fantasies   Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast   Sexual Health Alliance Program https://sexualhealthalliance.com   Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audioAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

3 Okt 202340min

Welcome to episode 353 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Eric FitzMedrud. In this episode, we discuss Dr. FitzMedrud's book The Better Man, exploring the intricacies of consent, emotional processes and emotional skills and addressing low interest in sex through open communication and cooperation.  Dr. Eric FitzMedrud hails from Minneapolis, where his formative years were enriched by the diversity that sparked his passion for issues of inclusivity. Following his high school years, he embarked on a transformative journey to India as part of the Rotary International Youth Exchange Program. In Colorado, where he pursued his college education, he encountered the love of his life, his future wife. His horizons expanded further during his college years when he embarked on a Semester at Sea, offering him a broader perspective on the world.   Dr. FitzMedrud's path to becoming a licensed psychologist (PSY23669) evolved from a scholarly interest in spirituality and human development during his undergraduate Religious Studies studies. He later shifted his focus to one-on-one work, completing prerequisite courses at Loyola University in Chicago for a year and ultimately earning his Clinical Psychology Ph.D. in 2008.   Passionate about his profession, Dr. FitzMedrud derives immense satisfaction from the meaningful and impactful work he does, helping others lead more purposeful and connected lives. Below, you will find a concise overview of various positions he has held throughout his career, as well as a brief insight into his therapeutic approach.     In this episode, you will hear:  Dr. Eric FitzMedrud discusses his book The Better Man and shares therapy experiences Exploring the intricacies of consent, emotional processes and emotional skills Examining the concept of sexual desire as a basic need  Debunking common misconceptions surrounding love and intimacy A closer look at prevalent myths about romance and sexuality Understanding deliberate approaches to maintaining intimacy The significance of embracing novelty and navigating through awkwardness Emphasizing the importance of emotional communication Addressing low interest in sex through open communication and cooperation  Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast   Sexual Health Alliance Program https://sexualhealthalliance.com   Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

26 Sep 202344min

Welcome to episode 352 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Keira Barr. In this episode, we discuss ways in which couples can approach skinny dipping, analyzing the things that may hold you back from new experiences and how you can transition more holistic view of sex and sexuality.  Dr. Keira Barr is a prominent leader in women’s medicine – creating a bridge between hormones, skin and mind-body medicine to optimize women’s mid-life experience. A fierce patient advocate and completely dedicated to uncovering the root cause of hormonal imbalances, Dr. Barr empowers women worldwide to take control of their health and their hormones in menopause.    She is an international speaker, best selling author, clinical educator, and considered a leading authority on women’s health. As a former Assistant Clinical Professor at UC Davis in the departments of dermatology and pathology, editorial reviewer of multiple leading medical journals, medical advisor within the personal care and tech communities, and researcher in clinical trials.   Dr Barr is dedicated to providing the most-cutting edge and innovative solutions for women. Her work has been featured in the MindBodyGreen, Bustle, Reader’s Digest, Glamour, SELF, Oprah Magazine, and more.     In this episode, you will hear:  Ways in which couples can approach skinny dipping Advice for people wanting to get comfortable in their own skin How skinny dipping can potentially enhance intimacy The importance of engaging in skinny dipping as a couple Enjoying the novelty of skinny dipping to enhance arousal Analyzing the things that may hold you back from skinny dipping Understanding the window of tolerance How you can work towards being more open to new ideas Transitioning to a more holistic view of sex and sexuality  Further recommendations and tips  Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast   Sexual Health Alliance Program https://sexualhealthalliance.com   Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audioAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

19 Sep 202337min

Welcome to episode 351 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Douglas Weiss. In this episode, we discuss betrayal in relationships, how therapeutic polygraphs can help in rebuilding trust and the value of intentional rituals and emotional intimacy to create a strong relationship.  Dr. Douglas Weiss is a psychologist and the founder of Heart to Heart Counseling Center, which specializes in the treatment of sexual addicts, intimacy anorexics and their spouses. He has counseled with sex addicts and their partners for almost three decades. Heart to Heart Counseling Center maintains weekly 3 and 5 Day Intensives that couples fly in from all over the world to attend, dozens of weekly groups, hundreds of weekly appointments with 16 counselors on staff. Dr. Weiss personally continues to provide 5 Day Intensives at the Center. Dr. Weiss has been in recovery for over 34 years, he and all of the counselors at Heart to Heart verify their sobriety with regular polygraphs.   Dr. Weiss has authored more than 40 books and offers 30 therapeutic DVDs for men, women and marriages. He is proud to be the first author to write a book for the partners of sex addicts. Dr. Weiss was the first to coin the term Intimacy Anorexia which is the withholding of emotional, physical and spiritual intimacy in marriage.   He’s been the expert guest on numerous national shows including Oprah, Dr. Phil and Good Morning America. He has had two documentaries, Lifetime TV Network and a British documentary produced about his practice. He is also the President of the American Association for Sex Addiction Therapy (AASAT) which is a certification training program for sex addiction, partners of sex addicts, and intimacy anorexia.    In this episode, you will hear:  Understanding more about betrayal in relationships How infidelity can cause intense trauma and various reactions from individuals Why therapeutic polygraphs can help in rebuilding trust and establishing boundaries The need for reassurance and commitment in moving forward The role of self-care and not taking on new responsibilities during healing  Looking at anger as a work exercise Why we need intimacy-building practices and disciplines in relationships The value of intentional rituals and emotional intimacy   Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

12 Sep 202334min

Welcome to episode 350 of the Sexology Podcast! I am absolutely delighted to have Sophie Saint Thomas as our guest today. In this episode, we will delve into the fascinating topic of multiple orgasms, explore the rich tapestry of sexual experiences beyond the realm of orgasms, and uncover the crucial role that psychological arousal plays in enhancing overall pleasure.  Sophie Saint Thomas is a New York City-based journalist and author originally from the U.S. Virgin Islands. She is published in GQ, Playboy, VICE, Cosmopolitan, Forbes, Allure, Glamour, Marie Claire, High Times, Nylon, Refinery29, Complex, Harper’s Bazaar, PRIDE Magazine, SELF, and more. Her writing focuses on sex, drugs, and rock ‘n’ roll as well as the occult and other subcultures.   Saint Thomas is the author of multiple books, including Finding Your Higher Self: Your Guide to Cannabis for Self-Care, The Little Book of CBD for Self-Care, and Sex Witch: Magickal Spells for Love, Lust, and Self-Protection.      In this episode, you will hear:  Understanding what constitutes a multiple orgasm Different interpretations: blending of orgasms or having multiple orgasms in one sexual encounter Looking at the diversity of sexual experiences beyond just orgasms The pressure some individuals feel to have explosive orgasms during sex Emphasis on the importance of focusing on pleasure beyond just achieving orgasms The role of psychological arousal in enhancing pleasure Understanding that men may also fake orgasms The concept of women having secrets in different historical contexts Challenges in communication with partners who may not understand a partner's needs Sophie's advice to relax and not put too much pressure on oneself regarding orgasms  Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast   Sexual Health Alliance Program https://sexualhealthalliance.com   Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

5 Sep 202333min

Welcome to episode 349 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Ruth Ramsay about strip teasing, ways to create a contrasting story or role to spice things up, how you can experiment with personas for excitement and the importance of prior communication to prevent discomfort.  In 2001, Ruth Ramsay began her journey at the London School of Striptease, forsaking journalism for the empowering allure of the art. Over 12 eventful years, she danced, performed globally, taught, modeled, and advocated for adult entertainment workers' rights. She also championed erotic rights for people with disabilities, earning an Erotic Award.   During this time, Ruth learned unexpected lessons in sexual empowerment. As a striptease teacher, she saw students bloom and audiences embrace their sexuality. This journey boosted confidence and joy across life's facets.   After meeting her soulmate, Ruth left the erotic industry, prioritizing her stepfamily and fitness training. When her stepchildren left for university, she turned to transformational life coaching, lighting the way for others on matters of sexual happiness and identity.   Ruth seamlessly merges her experiences with coaching, providing a safe space for clients to explore desires. Her journey amplifies her non-judgmental approach. Her dance background nurtured unflappability and compassion. Guiding individuals toward sexual and overall empowerment now brings her the fulfillment dance once did.     In this episode, you will hear:  Crafting a narrative breaks routine which can be exciting for a long-term relationship. Ways to create a contrasting story or role to spice things up. How Ruth shifted from strip tease artist to sex educator and coach The challenges in teasing relationships, emphasizing timing and communication. Looking at teasing and seduction adds playfulness and depth. How you can experiment with personas, and scenarios for excitement. Make sure to prioritize your pleasure and excitement too. How the narrative approach engages both partners and builds anticipation. Embrace creativity, communication, and vulnerability for reconnection. The importance of prior communication to prevent discomfort. Why you should keep learning and experimenting in teasing to deepen understanding.    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast  Competition Winners Eric Kenneth Barry Sutton Brendan McDonnell Jim Kamp Sexual Health Alliance Program https://sexualhealthalliance.com  Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

29 Aug 202345min