A Nightmare Fuel with "Character"
This episode contains discussions of violence against women, and homicide. Please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 or lifeline.org.au if any of the topics discussed raise any issues for you. The recent news of the death of Kelly Wilkinson has made national headlines. How many more women have to lose their lives for Australia to step up and pay attention. Also, is Abbie sleeping with a "reformed mansplainer"? Plus we have a double whammy of a nightmare fuel. Abbie has a personal one about what someone recently said about her vajeen - AND a terrible albeit psychic first date to rival all weird ass first dates. LINKS Donate to Kelly Wilkinson's children https://bit.ly/3tSdGjb Find your local member to write to about legislation changes http://bit.ly/auspol-localmember Review the podcast on Apple http://bit.ly/ial-review Listen to The Space podcast http://bit.ly/thespace-podcast Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and editor: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26 Apr 202145min
I'm Just Queer
Why has Abbie decided to identify as Queer and why are some people accusing her of bi erasure? Plus, who knew that there are people out there who can tell you exactly what they want and need out of whatever kind of relationship you're having with them and NOT gaslight you... Cause Abbie only just found that out and it's AMAZING. Also, a compliment and a medical/dating Nightmare Fuel? Yes please! LINKS Get Your Abbie Vibrator here https://bit.ly/3t6AEmq Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and editor: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
19 Apr 202142min
Khloe, What Have We Done Darl?
Have you seen or heard about Khloe Kardashian's "leaked" bikini photo? Well, Abbie has A LOT to say about it. Also, ABBIE HAS RELEASED A NEW VIBRATOR!!! Producer Elise tries it out first hand and you get to hear aaaaallll the details. LINKS Get Your Abbie Vibrator here https://bit.ly/3t6AEmq Margot Pincus' TikTok https://bit.ly/3mPC7eN Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Get your It's A Lot merchandise http://bit.ly/itsalot-merch Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
12 Apr 202144min
Incoming MAFS Rant #NotSorry
Why is this season's MAFS screaming the word PROBLEMATIC? Other than a MAFS rant, Abbie gets a text from an ex boyfriend and she is SO not impressed. Also, can a palm lick make a woman cum? LINKS The Dan Savage Lovecast https://www.savagelovecast.com/ Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Get your It's A Lot merchandise http://bit.ly/itsalot-merch Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
5 Apr 202129min
Did Big C*m Pt II
Why is "Condensed milk" the highlight of today's episode? Hint: It's nightmare fuel related. Also, what do you do when you run out of words in a conversation? Do you anxiously over-talk or just embrace the silence? LINKS The Dan Savage Lovecast https://www.savagelovecast.com/ AJ Clementine on TikTok https://bit.ly/3u64hnQ Belle Bambi on TikTok https://bit.ly/31pPnwJ Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Get your It's A Lot merchandise http://bit.ly/itsalot-merch Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29 Mars 202132min
You Can't Blame This On A Bad Day
Are we really questioning the fact that the Atlanta shootings weren't racially motivated? Abbie then moves on to a lighter note and unravels the elaborate table saga. Plus on Nightmare Fuel a listener wants to know, what the heck to do when her partner wants her to be safe, but she really wants to go to the beach. This episode of It's A Lot is sponsored by Esmi Skin Minerals. Use the code "ITSALOT20" at checkout for 20% off store wide https://bit.ly/3bHeeAQ LINKS Intersectional.abc @intersectional.abc Alyssa Ho Writings @alyssahowritings Kim Christine @kimchristine94 Christine Liwag Dixon @cmliwagdixon '75-year-old Asian woman says she fought back after being attacked in San Francisco' Mercury News http://bayareane.ws/3c8v3pz Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Get your It's A Lot merchandise http://bit.ly/itsalot-merch Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
22 Mars 202147min
Women Have Had Enough... Again!
The following episode contains discussions of sexual assault, alleged murder, rape, and suicidal ideation. If this raises any issues for you please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 Will we (women and young girls) ever be able to walk home at night without holding onto our keys ready to pounce at any potential murderer or rapist lurking around the corner? ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! Plus Abbie talks about that Harry and Meghan interview, Piers Morgan walking off set and simply not returning (or being allowed to return?) to his TV gig, and how long it'll take Abbie's friend Danny to build her an IKEA daybed. Resources Lifeline 13 11 14 https://www.lifeline.org.au/ 1800 RESPECT, National Sexual Assault, Domestic Family Violence Counselling Service https://www.1800respect.org.au/ Links Mentioned Just The Gist Podcast https://apple.co/3vxtwBp The King's Speech https://bit.ly/3rRv7zv Comedian Daniel Sloss' monologue about violence towards women https://bit.ly/3cuGeI9 How Meghan Markle Became An Advocate For Women At 11-years-old https://bit.ly/3ljWeB2 Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia LINKS Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Get your It's A Lot merchandise http://bit.ly/itsalot-merch See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
15 Mars 202142min
Influencers Aren't Here To Parent Your Children
You know what's been a lot? People telling Abbie off for being a bad role model for their kids. Plus hate following, why do we do it? And we have a double whammy of Nightmare Fuel for this week from one listener who has a UTI horror story, and producer Elise tells the story of her worst ever date. Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer: Elise Cooper LINKS Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Get your It's A Lot merchandise http://bit.ly/itsalot-merch See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
8 Mars 202133min
