Summer House, Friendship Breakups, and Finding Yourself After a Relationship

Lilly Wehman and Amelia Abernathy use the Summer House Season 10 drama to talk about self-worth, friendship breakups, and what happens when someone moves from one relationship into the next without slowing down. They look at Ciara, Amanda, West, and Kyle through a therapist lens without trying to diagnose anyone.

The conversation moves through staying friends with exes, wanting to be the “cool girl,” the pain of being hurt by a close friend, and the difference between finding your spark through someone else versus rebuilding it for yourself.

Key Topics

Summer House Season 10 through a therapist lens
Staying friends with an ex
The pressure to seem unbothered after a breakup
Friendship breakups and betrayal
Self-worth after a hard relationship
Finding yourself outside of dating
The difference between soothing and solving

Join the conversation:

What is something dating in your twenties has taught you about yourself? Share your thoughts and stories with us — we’d love to hear them.

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Lilly Wehman: Millennium | LinkedIn
Amelia Abernathy: Millennium | LinkedIn

This podcast is powered by Millennium Counseling Center in Chicago, IL. To learn more visit: millenniumhope.com

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