“At Least You’re Still Alive” & 9 Other WTF Things People Say About Cancer

“At Least You’re Still Alive” & 9 Other WTF Things People Say About Cancer

People say some truly wild shit when you have cancer.

“At least you kept your hair.”
“Everything happens for a reason.”
“You’ve just got to stay positive.”
“Well, at least it hasn’t spread.”
“If I was going to get cancer, that’s the one I’d want.”

And, of course, the absolute classic…

“Well, at least you’re still alive.”

In this solo episode, I’m counting down 10 things you really shouldn’t say to someone with cancer from toxic positivity and cancer comparisons to the well-meaning comments that can make you want to scream.

Most people aren’t trying to be insensitive. They just don’t know what to say.

So here’s a revolutionary idea: you don’t need to find the silver lining, fix it or tell someone why it could be worse.

Sometimes “Are you okay?” is more than enough.

Funny, sweary, honest and probably one to send to that person who keeps saying “at least…”.


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