Rerelease | Violeta & The Calculating Narcissist | Domestic Violence

In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we revisit Violeta’s story of a calculating narcissist whose relentless pursuit made her feel seen and wanted. As his attention became control, Violeta found herself changing who she was to regain the affection he had once given so freely. Each time she tried to leave, he changed his approach, using her empathy and hope for a better relationship to pull her back. Behind the charm was a pattern of deception and intimidation that left her questioning herself and feeling responsible for his behavior.

It’s a story of shifting manipulation tactics, gaslighting, fraud, infidelity, the exhausting pressure to prove your love, narcissistic abuse, coercive control, domestic violence, emotional abuse, psychological abuse, physical abuse, strangulation, intimidation, death threats, reproductive coercion, sexual coercion, financial exploitation, deception, love bombing, mirroring, boundary testing, blame shifting, victim blaming, minimizing abuse, jealousy, possessiveness, constant monitoring, triangulation, hoovering, emotional blackmail, weaponized vulnerability, guilt, shame, self-blame, self-doubt, isolation, secrecy, loss of identity, people pleasing, overfunctioning, perfectionism, childhood emotional neglect, maternal emotional abuse, misogyny, patriarchal expectations, gender roles, fear of abandonment, false promises, future faking, intermittent reinforcement, trauma bonding, and rationalizing abuse.

CONTENT WARNING - THIS EPISODE DISCUSSES PHYSICAL ABUSE & SEXUAL COERCION.

*** WE DID OUR BEST TO FIX THE SOUND. THIS IS FROM OUR EARLY EPISODES WHEN OUR SOUND WAS NOT THE BEST ***

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