The Danger of Seeing What Others Don't (Psychology Explains)

The Danger of Seeing What Others Don't (Psychology Explains)Uploaded 19-09-26In this video, we break down the psychology of seeing what others don't. We look at Charles Bond and Bella DePaulo's meta-analysis of more than 24,000 people, which found that humans detect lies at about 54% accuracy, barely above a coin flip, and that the gap between "gifted" readers and everyone else is close to nothing. We explore Daniel Kahneman and Gary Klein's landmark agreement on when intuition can be trusted, and why reading people fails both of their conditions. We unpack DePaulo's finding that confidence and accuracy in reading others correlate at almost zero, and how hostile attribution bias can turn a guess about someone's coldness into the very coldness you predicted.Then we go through four dangers that live inside a sensitive mind: the read you never graded, the wall of survivors, the prediction you enforced, and the right signal with the invented reason. And we finish with three principles for building the half of the instrument that was never installed, the part that checks.Which of the four dangers did you recognize first? Tell me in the comments.#psychology #intuition #readingpeople #highlyperceptive #overthinking #selfawareness #psychtoons---📚 Research referenced:Bond, C. F., and DePaulo, B. M. (2006). Accuracy of deception judgments. Personality and Social Psychology Review, 10(3), 214–234.Bond, C. F., and DePaulo, B. M. (2008). Individual differences in judging deception: Accuracy and bias. Psychological Bulletin, 134(4), 477–492.DePaulo, B. M., Charlton, K., Cooper, H., Lindsay, J. J., and Muhlenbruck, L. (1997). The accuracy-confidence correlation in the detection of deception. Personality and Social Psychology Review, 1(4), 346–357.Kahneman, D., and Klein, G. (2009). Conditions for intuitive expertise: A failure to disagree. American Psychologist, 64(6), 515–526.Dodge, K. A. (1980). Social cognition and children's aggressive behavior. Child Development, 51(1), 162–170.Tuente, S. K., Bogaerts, S., and Veling, W. (2019). Hostile attribution bias and aggression in adults: A systematic review. Aggression and Violent Behavior, 46, 66–81.Bacon, F. (1620). Novum Organum.---Disclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute professional psychological or medical advice. If you're struggling with your mental health, please reach out to a licensed therapist or mental health professional. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices