Total Power Exchange (TPE) in BDSM-S02E45

Recorded: 5/10/2020 / Published: 7/3/2020

Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair joins us again for a conversation about Total Power Exchange (TPE)..

[00:50] Rules to love by.
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
[01:29] HaPpY mOtHeR's DaY!!!
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[02:17] Total Power Exchange (TPE) Defined
(https://www.kinkly.com/definition/92/total-power-exchange-tpe)

-Total power exchange (TPE) is a relationship dynamic that occurs in a BDSM relationship where the dominant partner has total power over the submissive in everything. TPE always applies in sexual situations, but generally also refers to the dominant having power over all other elements of the submissive's life.
-TPE is a turn-on for a lot of people because of the level of trust involved. The submissive essentially give their life away to the dominant. This is also a huge responsibility for the dominant and should not be taken lightly.
-TPE can be used in day-to-day activities, or it can be used for just a few hours during play to spice things up.
-This type of play is not about micromanaging a person's life; it’s about a submissive giving complete trust to the dominant partner and believing that they will keep the submissive's best interests and pleasure in mind.
-What can be so hard to understand is that the submissive is actually control. That's because in safe, respectful D/s relationship the submissive can stop the play at any time. It's all about the submissive being able to give up control and the dominant being able to exert control in a safe, consensual way.

[02:32] https://www.kinkly.com/definition/92/total-power-exchange-tpe
[03:12] Did Kuldrin and mayfair go TPE?
[03:26] TPE Defined.
[05:28] A deep dive into micromanaging. Part 1
[06:03] A contradiction in the definition?
[08:12] A deep dive into micromanaging. Part 2
[17:52] Does Kuldrin manage or micromanage Mayfair?
[20:29] Babylove asks about calling red in a TPE dynamic.
[28:32] Kuldrin's basic list of everything you need to know about total power exchange.
[32:52] SSC vs RACK
[34:38] https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/233
[35:14] Temporary total power exchange
[39:30] Trail total power exchange
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[57:23] Mayfair's final thoughts on TPE?
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